how to break up
August 9, 2007 8:04pm CST
how do u break up with someone u been with for so long?
• United States
10 Aug 07
Breaking up is hard to do especially with someone you have been with awhile and had children with. There will always be a relationship even though you break up because of the kid(s). Try to talk sensibly and tell them that it just isn't working for you now and that your feelings have changed and that you have thought about it for a long time now and that as bad as it will hurt you you cannot remain in the relationship any longer. That all it is doing is hurting you both by remaining in the relationship that isn't going anywhere. I love the song "Let it Burn" by Usher. Play that to them to help out. I wish you luck in whatever you decide to do just follow your heart to whereever it leads you and don't ever settle for something that you don't truly want or need. (HUGS)