0 replies?!

Philippines
August 12, 2007 7:56am CST
how do you feel when you get 0 responses?
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27 responses
@ayris77 (1304)
• Malaysia
12 Aug 07
I feel sad and try to be more creative in writing discussion!
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• Philippines
12 Aug 07
even though you try i dont know why they dont reply sometimes . .
• Philippines
12 Aug 07
even though you try i dont know why they dont reply sometimes . .
@balasri (26577)
• India
12 Aug 07
I will realize that my discussion is of no interest and try to post a juicy one.
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• Philippines
12 Aug 07
most of us feel that way .. thanks for sharing your thoughts
@balasri (26577)
• India
13 Aug 07
Thanks for accepting and appreciating my view.My lot is a place of various people from different cultures and countries.A food for some one may be a poison to another,So we cannot expect the responses we think every time I think.
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• China
12 Aug 07
i feel little bit dissapointed and then starts up with another discussion in another interest
• Philippines
12 Aug 07
i havent really experienecd that
@myfanwy65 (1030)
• United States
12 Aug 07
I don't like it. But, there's not a lot I can do about it. :D Apparently, I don't know what the hot topics are. I dont' get many responses anyway.
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• Philippines
12 Aug 07
well anyway maybe its the popularity that gets to people
• India
12 Aug 07
Hey funny topic. ya its quite disappointing to find that you have no response. But it also teaches us to post interesting topics.
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• Philippines
12 Aug 07
yeah :P it seems like when i posted this topic i seem to have an answer to all the discussions with no replies
@lilaclady (28270)
• Australia
12 Aug 07
I guess we all have threads that get no replies unless you have friends who will look after each other but it is just a case of who is on posting at the time it goes through the site, I don't think it is a thing anyone should take it personally.
• Philippines
12 Aug 07
yes youre quite right about that . . but it seems kind of depressing thinking that somebody too also share the same thought as you
@wooitsmolly (3613)
• United States
12 Aug 07
When I first started here I didn't get many replies on my discussions. I didn't like that. It made me feel like nobody was reading what I had to say and I didn't use the site much for a few months. Then I added a lot more friends and now my discussions always get a lot of responses, so it feels good. I just think nobody was seeing my discussions before and now they are.
• Philippines
12 Aug 07
hehehe . . i too feel the same but sometimes when you seem to be off on mylot for quite sometime nobody seems to reply anymore
@psyche49f (2512)
• Philippines
12 Aug 07
I'll feel bad of course...even with very little number of responses, which I have for a couple of times...of course, there has to be a reason why our discussions don't attract more responses than the others...but I don't dwell on it anymore...I just continue responding to discussions; never mind if those friends do not return the gesture...the more important thing is that one gets to enjoy working here at mylot...but of course, it would make me happy if I attract more responses to my discussions....
• Philippines
12 Aug 07
its a matter of expressing youre thoughts .. atleast you spoke rather than staying quiet always . . .
@Buchi_bulla (8299)
• India
12 Aug 07
I feel sorry for it. That means my discussion has not created any interest amongst people to respond. But what to do? It is part of the game.
• Philippines
12 Aug 07
hehehe well at least you said something .. i just feel sorry for some of my discussions that i really want people to know about . . its like i really made that discussion to hear from some people like the ones with huge contents
@nikkiwith (1074)
• Australia
12 Aug 07
How funny, i was thinking the same thing and then i found this discussion! It's a little disappointing when you get no responses and also when you have no "best responses". Oh well, never mind, let's build a bridge and get over it, lol :D
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• Philippines
12 Aug 07
hahaha youre so right :) i was thinkng of making this discussions i too would reply when i see someone say this hehe
@pastorkayte (2255)
• United States
11 Jan 08
Well it only happened to me once but I was just starting out and I didnt have any friends so I guess it was over looked by the masses. But it has never happened again only thing is I cant get rid of it because it is unresolved in my unresolved list.
@lkbooi (16102)
• Malaysia
11 Jan 08
First of all, I believe my discussion might still in my friends’ waiting list. I think there must be at least someone here will reply my discussion as I have lots of good friends here at mylot. It is just depending on the time when my friends are ready to answer me.
@ddnj2006 (629)
• Philippines
11 Jan 08
It's the reason why is is much easier to response than to start a discussion. it looks you're not appriciated when you got no response. :-(
@dpk262006 (55825)
• Delhi, India
14 Aug 07
It is really very disappointing to see, when you find 'zero' response to your discussions. Initially, it used to happen with me...that I used to get 'zero' response....but gradually I started making friends and vice versa...and now I can say that I do get some responses to my discussion, irrespective of its contents.
@tim_un (355)
• Malaysia
13 Aug 07
i will feel very sad and bad. but also feel encouragement for me to improve my post quality.i will start thinking the better content to post and for all to discuss about.
@unisis (1674)
• Indonesia
13 Aug 07
I feel sorry for it. That means my discussion has not created any interest amongst people and I feel disapointed for it. When I first started in mylot I did not get many replies on my discussions. I did not like that. It made me feel like nobody was reading what I had to say and I did not use the site much for a few months. Then I added a lot more friends and now my discussions always get a lot of responses, so it feels good. I just think nobody was seeing my discussions before and now they are,and now I myself mostly response the discussion.
@mari_skye (1638)
• Philippines
13 Aug 07
Saddened of course. But then you really cannot do anything about it. Just hope that someone somehow will post a response to your discussion. The only hassle in having zero responses is that of course you cannot choose a best response, LOL! And the discussion will forever be in your unresolved discussions. Kind of makes you want to delete it right?
@tuffy999 (794)
• Philippines
13 Aug 07
not much. just laugh it off. what can i do no one was interested.
• Philippines
13 Aug 07
Well, I feel bad. I am sad and wondering why no one responded my posts. But for then later I will realise that maybe they don't like my topic. So I keep on posting new and interesting topic. We don't know that we might think that our topic is nice but others sees it as boring or not interesting.
@gr8life (6253)
• Malaysia
13 Aug 07
Hello ifinallyfoundmybaby, Honestly speaking, I will feel sad. But, we must know the reason why we got zero responses for our discussion. Maybe, none of our friends here get the idea of what we are talking about. Maybe, it is not interested enough for them to respond or they don't know what to write to respond to our discussion and so many maybe... I am one of those who doesn't get as many responses as I hope for. Looking at my friend list, I am supposed to get at least 30 responses whenever I started a new discussion since I have 70 people on my friend list. But, it never happens. It doesn't matter too much to me though it makes me disappointed sometimes. I just go ahead and respond to others. Sometimes, I feel sad too whenever friends whom I respond frequently, never take a chance to thank me like leaving a comment for me or responding at least once to my discussion but again, I don't feel that much hurt. They have the right to choose whatever they want to do. Sometimes, I just go to the new member discussions and keep responding to them. It is better to respond to different type of people rather than to your friends here. I just feel that way sometimes *sad* Anyway, I want to thank you personally as you are one of those friends who make my existence here worthy. I read your few discussions before but sorry as I don't have anything to say. I just don't want to say something like hmmm, uhhh, or anything that really doesn't make sense to you *laughs* Hope to hear more from you.