Do men really want to sleep with all the women they are friends with?

@whywiki (6070)
Canada
August 12, 2007 8:20pm CST
I work with this guy who says that guys are only friends with the women they want to sleep with. I say he is wrong as I have many male friends and I am positive they don't want to sleep with me. Am I wrong?
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@EvanHunter (4028)
• United States
15 Aug 07
This kind of goes back to the line of thinking that there are only two kinds of women to guys, woman they have slept with and women they want to sleep with (excluding relatives). I myself have a couple of female friends but I have never wanted to get it on with them but from what I know of most guys its about a 9 times out of 10 rule if a guy is being nice to you he doesnt jsut want to be "friends" no matter what he says.
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@whywiki (6070)
• Canada
16 Aug 07
I think it is nice to think that I am desirable to guys even if I am not and they don't want to.
@Ravenladyj (22937)
• United States
13 Aug 07
LOL omg thats just plain laughable! Now granted I'm quite sure there ARE men who become friends with women JUST to get a chance to sleep with them and I'm sure that there are women who become friends with men just to get a romp between the sheets BUT that is NOT the case with ALL by any means and not even half I figure...I've ALWAYS had male friends and lots of them...do I want to sleep with them? Sure some and I've slept with some (so obviously those particular ones wanted to sleep with me) BUT thats NOT why we were friends...We were and are friends becuase we get along, have similar interests and so on...I've had MANY male friends that I've never had any interest in sexually and they feel the same way in fact thinkin about it is just creepy cause these guys are like brothers to me ya know and visa versa.... I think your co-worker needs a reality check....or maybe just an internal check cause I'm thinkin he has that whole psychological projecting thing going on ;-)
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@whywiki (6070)
• Canada
16 Aug 07
I think men and women are basically alike too, some are just hornier than others and it runs there lives. My co-worker is one of them.
@men82in (1270)
• India
13 Aug 07
Of course you are right. But the expectations might vary with everybody. If everybody is within yourlike mentality there is no room for extraordinary happenings and misbehaves. Thanks a lot for your best mentality and friendships as such.
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@whywiki (6070)
• Canada
13 Aug 07
It is great that we all differ that is what keeps us wondering.
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@Pose123 (21666)
• Canada
13 Aug 07
This guy must only think of women in terms of sleeping with them. I am quite content with my wife. I have lots of female friends but that's what they are, friends.
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@whywiki (6070)
• Canada
13 Aug 07
Yeah I have to admit he has a one track mind.
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• United States
13 Aug 07
I know I have at least one male friend who doesn't want to sleep with me, but, yeah, I know some of them do. Although, even some of the ones that do are still genuinely my friends. Sleeping with someone is different for guys than than for women -- the emotional aspect and the boundaries just aren't there for them.
@whywiki (6070)
• Canada
13 Aug 07
I think men see it different too.
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@cyntrow (8524)
• United States
16 Aug 07
Only the straight ones want to sleep with their female friends. LOL. Just kidding. I have a lot of guy friends. I've always been very good at being one of the boys. I had a bunch of problems in college getting dates because the group of guys that I hung out with considered me like a sister. They didn't try to make a move on me, but they didn't want other guys to make a move on me either. So the short answer is, No. Not all guys want to sleep with their female friends.
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@whywiki (6070)
• Canada
16 Aug 07
One of the guys, I suffered through that when I was college age too.
@pendragon (3352)
• United States
24 Aug 07
I'd say the percentage is higher of those who would given the opportunity or who just think about it anyhow...it's not right, but i feel that it's that way.
@whywiki (6070)
• Canada
24 Aug 07
I guess it is human nature to wonder what your friends would be like in bed.
@sungat (1016)
• Pakistan
24 Aug 07
i think every male wants to sleep with every beautiful women as i have thought
@whywiki (6070)
• Canada
24 Aug 07
oh how I wish I was a beautiful woman!