girls,do you mind your boyfriend is fat?

China
August 14, 2007 1:08am CST
i am not a fat guy,but these days,i got fatter and fatter.so my girlfriend told me to lose weight.in fact,i also want to lose weight,but i don't know whether she minds that if i am fat.so i want to ask girls on mylot,if your boy friends get fatter,do you mind it?
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• Indonesia
14 Aug 07
my boyfriend's stomach is fat but i'm fine..nothing to be worried about.as long as we match each other..
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• China
14 Aug 07
love is the most important.
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@youless (93111)
• Guangzhou, China
14 Aug 07
I don't mind my man's appearance no matter he gets fatter or not. I love him rather than his look. Although the look is important, but I pay attention to the person himself.
• China
14 Aug 07
your husband is a really luky guy.
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• Philippines
14 Aug 07
Oh yes, I do mind. Although my love for him wouldn't change a bit, I do want him to be fit. My boyfriend's gaining weight these days as well and I do not like the change so I really urge him to go on a diet and exercise a lot. He doesn't mind me telling him though because he also does not like his new image. It doesn't really "matter" much but we would be happier if our boyfriends were fit. That's just tantamount to asking if you prefer a sexier girlfriend. I know your answer to this question already. lol! I hope you understand what I mean when I say we do mind. Wish you more luck on your weight loss!
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• China
14 Aug 07
thx,my friend,i will try my best to lose weight.
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@zaichn (319)
• Philippines
14 Aug 07
The fact that your girlfriend told you to lose weight means that she does mind having a boyfriend like your weight now. But it doesnt mean that she can't accept you, she just minds your weight. So better lose weight soon. The sooner, the better. Best of luck to you pal!
• China
15 Aug 07
it doesn't matter.i have had the same mistake.
@fazelath (1176)
• India
14 Aug 07
if in love these things does'nt matter,love is blind,your girlfriend is concerned about your health not your looks,so she wants you to lose wieght,i dont mind if my boy friend is fat
• China
14 Aug 07
yeah,love is blind.i agree with you.
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@fazelath (1176)
• India
14 Aug 07
:-)
• India
16 Aug 07
i don't mind if he is fat.afterall its the mutual love for eachother that matters.i am not at all bothered about his appearance.infact my bf is gaining weight these days.he is getting a pot belly.he was very thin 4-5 years back.and at that time i wanted him to put on some weight.but he is geeting overweight now and i am more concerned regarding his health. getting fat upto a limit is ok.but getting obese is sign of unhealthyness.and i don't want him to be obese.so i constantly pressurize him to go on excercise regime and be fit. and moreover who doesn't like to have a more presentable and handsome boyfriend!!!!
• China
17 Aug 07
the last sentance really came from girls heart! tahx, my friend!
@yanjiaren (9050)
15 Aug 07
Heheh my Beloved has a little Buddha Belly but the rest of him is fit..I just tell him to train for health reasons..When you love someone you want them to be healthy and happy, so only for that reason we do loads of Tai Ji when we are together..Mind you Tai ji makes us both have podgy bellies lol..I don't understand quite why..maybe the storage of all that qi? hahhaa
• China
16 Aug 07
Tai Ji?i think it's a good to keep healthy.
@wotfpatty (2068)
• United States
14 Aug 07
I mind because I don't want my husband to be unhealthy and overweight men can have heart attacks, strokes, diabetes, and all kinds of problems. My husband is quite slim but, if by chance he started to gain weight and was getting overweight, I would try to help him to lose by making sure the foods we have here are good for him and I would talk to him about it. At this stage it isn't about looks but about health although it is nice that after 20 years my husband is the same weight as he was when I met him and looks great for his age. He takes good care of himself and I am proud of him for it. If you are gaining weight, you should try to change your habits for yourself so you can be fit and healthy and also look good. You girlfriend mentioned it so she is telling you to try to lose some weight it seems.
• China
14 Aug 07
you mind it also because of your love to him.
• Brazil
8 May 09
My boyfriend is fat and I love him that way. He has always excercised but always been fat. So he has some muscle but he is still fat. I think his body is fine and he doesn't need to lose any weight, I actually find him pretty damn hot looking big as he is. Of course main concern is his health and how he feels about himself. If he's healthy and confident I'll support him.
• China
3 Sep 07
Yes,I do mind.Although my boyfriend is not so fat but he has a big tummy.These days we are planning to do some exercises together everyday.Yesterday we played badminton and did some jogging.We were both excitied and tired after that.I think we can lose some weight if we stick to it.
• Philippines
22 Aug 07
i'd be really worried about his health...it's not that i'll be embarrasses being with him because personally, it doesn't matter...nothing would change...it's just that if he gets fatter and fatter, he'll be at risk for developing different diseases...it's his health, and not about his physical appearance...
• Portugal
21 Aug 07
Well, me and my hubby is always minding each others weight. :) But it depends upon the partners insights. If it's ok with her or him that you look fat. Well, good. But there are also who doesn't like fat guy and so do I. LOL If my hubby looks fat I easily told him. It's nice to see that you maintain your body built. Athletic body looks smart than fats guys, isn't it? It's good to be honest on your partner as always. :) Anyway, if your lover loves you so much she will never stray buddy so don't worry. :) See yah around ....
@lkbooi (16101)
• Malaysia
19 Aug 07
Hi dayong, at present I don’t have the right to have any boyfriend as I’m a married woman lol... Of course I don’t mind my husband to be a fat man as far as he loves me. Other than that I know many women dislike their loved one to be fat and also not interested in any fat guys so it’s quite safe to have a fat one to be our loved one lol... Actually my husband is a thin man. No matter how much food he has taken he still remains thin all the time.
@puchapox (583)
• Philippines
18 Aug 07
I don't mind. In fact I even like it. My boyfriend's waistline is 40 inches. Mine's 26. I love to hug and cuddle with him, he feels like a life sized teddy bear. At first I wanted him to lose weight but right now i don't honestly think its a turn off for him to look like the way he is. I love him, however he looks like.
@zaichn (319)
• Philippines
14 Aug 07
The fact that your girlfriend told you to lose weight means that she does mind having a boyfriend like your weight now. But it doesnt mean that she can't accept you, she just minds your weight. So better lose weight soon. The sooner, the better. Best of luck to you pal!
@sherleen (73)
• China
14 Aug 07
I think it's ok if he's not too fat.
@shinjiao (1464)
• China
14 Aug 07
Though a litter but I do mind.I hope my boyfriend can keep a nice body shape so that when we shopping,I will choose as more as possible clothes for him.But indeed,I don't want a too skinny boyfriend.Bone!Horrible! Well,just keep your healthy at first if you want to lose weight.
• China
14 Aug 07
This is an interesting question, I thought girls worry it a lot! I prefer the not-thin guy,so fat isn't a big problem, as long as not too fat that needs a crane to come out of door:)
• China
14 Aug 07
as a matter of fact, getting on weight is kinda a stage a man have to meet. i don't mind he is getting on weight. but overweight is not acceptalbe for me, because overweight harms his healthy. as for appearance concerning, i don't mind. as long as he is still healthy.
@sr0415 (1140)
• Philippines
14 Aug 07
hi dayong1113cn! :) I guess your gf told you to lose weight because it's also for your own good. Sometimes, we improve our self-esteem if we look good outside. On my part, I don't mind if my bf is fat. He is my partner and when I accepted him as my bf, I accepted him as "him". Right? :)