When Things Slip Away ... How Would You Behave /... Come What May ?

Thiruvananthapuram, India
August 14, 2007 12:28pm CST
Even after meticulous planning and hard and earnest effort if things go out of your grasp or reach - what would you decide . Let the issue solve itself ... take things as it comes ... act in defiance ... keep abrupt silence OR ??
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7 responses
@unishwetabh (1032)
• India
14 Aug 07
Well one cant have everything in life.....it is our nature to imagine to hold up the time whenever things seems to be to good and we sometimes want the time to pass away in a fast pace when things are not going in our way. Now how should we cope up with it...well we may get sad and sometimes we even get frustrated but nothing can be done....as i mentioned before its not in our hands to get everything. We do get a little demoralized after we see things slipping away from our hands even when we worked all night and day for it...but my friend this is what life is all about. You get something and you lose something.
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@eshaan (6193)
• India
14 Aug 07
Depends on what the situation is,if I can fight the situation , i will try my best, if there are some decisions to be taken, i will take them, and if nothing is in my hand then i will have to keep silence, but that i can do to some extent, my nature is that i can't tolerate anything wrong for long.
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@whyaskq (7532)
• Singapore
15 Aug 07
If planning has been done meticuluously and adequately, when things go astray, there are control mechanisms to pull it back to shape. There is no way the issue can wreck havoc and destroy the original intent. If things goes out of hand, I would take contingency actions. I am in control and remain in control no matter what.
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@KarenO52 (2951)
• United States
15 Aug 07
If things don't go the way I'd like them to, I try to make the best of it, and I don't feel too bad if I've given it my best effort. Sometimes things just aren't meant to be. It can be disappointing, but that's life. I don't know how many times I've had something not go the way I would have liked to, in spite of my hard work and diligence, and then when I look back, I'm glad, because usually something else came up that was better for me.
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@Lakota12 (42681)
• United States
14 Aug 07
I just have to go at my own speed . and if it seems to far out there just work toward it as I can
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• Philippines
14 Aug 07
jeez..this is actually happening to me right now..everything is a mess and i cannot fix it and someone's making it more complicated than ever..i dunno what to do honestly though i had tried to settle things up and solve it..but its hard..i cant think of a way to fix it and i think i maybe losing hope upon this and just let things be..come what may..
@brew2x (3096)
• Philippines
16 Aug 07
If you think you've done everything that you could but still things got out of your grasp then I guess you just let the issue solve itself. Accept the fact that you can't do anything anymore but to wait. It is hard but time is an element and there is a right time for everything.