do you have friends whom you hate?

Philippines
August 18, 2007 4:32am CST
Usually, when we choose our friends, we choose the ones that we are in the same wavelength with; however, some people have friends whom they hate. Tell me about it?
9 responses
@wotfpatty (2068)
• United States
18 Aug 07
I had a friend I liked who turned out to be a using, backstabbing witch. I don't hate her but she sure isn't my friend anymore. I wouldn't be friends with people I didn't like. I have tolerated people that annoy me or that I don't particularly like in social settings but I don't consider them my friends. It takes a lot to call anyone a friend and I have to really like and trust them for that to happen.
@wotfpatty (2068)
• United States
18 Aug 07
Oops, sorry about double posting. That has been happening everywhere with me and others. Didn't mean it. :(
• Philippines
19 Aug 07
No problem hehe. Thank you very much for the response. In addition, some friends just change and we do not maintain the harmonious relationship that we used to have because of those changes.
@Ravenladyj (22940)
• United States
18 Aug 07
It takes a LOT for me to HATE someone for starters but I wouldnt even have a friend that I disliked...What woudl be the point? I mean how could you consider someone you dislike a friend??
• China
18 Aug 07
I think that someone whom you dislike won't be a friend of you!
• India
19 Aug 07
yes i also have seen people whom they hate from heart but they pretend to be friends but when he is not around whom my friend hates tells bad things he does and he really hates him.i simply dont get it why he is friend with him,i think he is friend with him because he gets lots of advantage from him.
@ladybug565 (2217)
• United States
18 Aug 07
I wouldnt be friends with someone that I dislike. I dont think I even know anyone that is, so I really dont know why anyone would even want to be friends with someone they hated.
@dana_ann (67)
• Australia
18 Aug 07
I find it hard to hate anyone... I'd have to have a really good reason. But I'm not necessarily close to most of my friends. They are just people I know and get along with.
@wotfpatty (2068)
• United States
18 Aug 07
I had a friend I liked who turned out to be a using, backstabbing witch. I don't hate her but she sure isn't my friend anymore. I wouldn't be friends with people I didn't like. I have tolerated people that annoy me or that I don't particularly like in social settings but I don't consider them my friends. It takes a lot to call anyone a friend and I have to really like and trust them for that to happen.
@laiza14 (593)
• Philippines
18 Aug 07
Of course we cannot avoid to have friend which inside of us, we feel we are irritable when we're with them. i have friends whom i'm irritated with, I don't like the reason why but i think it's the way that we dont deal with many things.. It;s kind of hard to explain it and tell it to them straight, but it is much better to tell it to them now, so that you can avoid having conflicts, and arguments as well..
@jayalaksmi (1041)
• India
18 Aug 07
Ya some people have friends who are even their enemy. I don't know how and wonder how some people do it but later could come to the decision that it may be because of their personal benefit which they may get from them.
• Malaysia
18 Aug 07
Hate only when there is dishonesty happening in the friendship but not on the contradict of ideas. And after I've 'checked and balanced' for what reasons of the caused. If due to my stupidness, I will not hate him/her because they are smarter than me and I must learn his smarter way for my goodness. But I will not materialized my hate to them because its often happened to me that the person whom I hated, give much help to me once needed. You know why? They are repaying their guilty with very sincere help. So don't tell others if you hate to any of your friend and don't try to agitprop and exacerbate the situation. justly nice for you to keep deeply in your mind and heart. And one day more re-friending will be making.