Im in love with a married man....

Philippines
August 21, 2007 8:08pm CST
i know its just going to be bloody messy and very painful.it's kinda a dead end relationship but how can i can tell my heart not to fall in love with a guy i've been with for 6 years now.,i know im going to hurt his family but i really love him and we're actually planning to have a baby.,please give me an advice..it's not that easy to stay away to this kind of situation...im really confused.
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4 responses
@lisa_wxy (393)
• China
22 Aug 07
i was shocked that you've been with him for six years,been in dark!! you gave your best ages to a married man,why? just for love? just think your love very coldly,do you really love him without money,status,career.....i mean if he has nothing but himself,do you still love him? and if ever you think that except you ,he has his family,his wife,his kids,but to you,except him,you had nothing.one day,if you two broke up,you had nothing,but his wife may forgive him. i was shocked that you are going to have baby with him.i think you should think it over. good luck!
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• Philippines
22 Aug 07
thanks so much for your advice .,i know that its wrong to fall in love with a married man but im only human and nobody's perfect...im not the only girl in this world who'd been into same situation as mine...thanks though...
@phayeth (519)
• Philippines
22 Aug 07
where on the same shoes girl. well, i almost fall in love with him but it fades away co'z always put in mind if i fall for that person i'm going to hurt his family... i know its hard to stay away but at least try to stay away.. but the decision is up to u..
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• Philippines
22 Aug 07
thanks for your advice.,i hope someday i'll find the right guy for me...
• China
22 Aug 07
make it clear that a man who could not be loyal to his wife also can not be loyal to you. maybe at this time he could have a third woman besides you and his wife---you two women are both betrayed! are you willing to let such a man own more than one women at the same time? are you willing to devote yourself and your baby to this kind of guy? not worth yet. it's easy for him to hurt two good women if you do that. do you want this outcome? i would not, because it's really horrible. even if you don't think about the other woman living with him, you should think about yourself. no one loves you like yourself, hum? so , just walk out of this mess,and you will find your really loved one.^^
• China
22 Aug 07
by the way, it's not " it not easy to stay away that situation" . it's about your will. if you are willing to do so, then you can. let your heart grow stronger and you can make up your mind.
• Philippines
22 Aug 07
its great to hear an advice to someone i really don't know and i really appreciate all your effort to answer all these.,thanks so much. i know someday i might realize this things and will soon end it up...
@acie_21 (5647)
• Philippines
24 Jul 09
thats a hard situation..you know what i cant say anything..cause im shock!well,let say your the wife of that guy..what will you feel that your husband is cheating on you?what you think?and having a baby to a married man?that will never work i tell you..you might end up regreting for stealing a man.i know you love him so..just set him free my friend ..love learns to let go.his not the man you deserve.dont think twice..think a lot!