What do you think is harder.?. Success in LOVE or CAREER.?.
By HomerBundy
@HomerBundy (1325)
United States
8 responses
@shellyrios (1212)
• United States
26 Oct 06
hmmmmm, this is a tough, but I would have to say in a career. There is so much competition in a career that it makes it harder to succeed in whatever industry, field, etc. someone is working in. Especially if you lack education credentials, but have the experience, there are a lot of college graduates out there, so that's my take. Love is complicated but in a different way. If you truly LOVE the person you're with, then you work through the hard times, issues, hardships and that's how someone succeeds with LOVE. It sounds corny, and I know I'm quoting, but really "Love is never having to say your sorry every time."
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@HomerBundy (1325)
• United States
26 Oct 06
i guess with both love and career you need to have some experience and knowledge of what you want...love and career have many factors when it comes to being succesful...
thanks for your response...
@shellyrios (1212)
• United States
26 Oct 06
Yes, I agree with the experience part. This is what I have experienced so far in my 33 yrs of life, so I speak with what I have in my life, and the struggles I went through, am going through now........
@HomerBundy (1325)
• United States
26 Oct 06
wow...33...your typing doesnt make you look a day over 28...i mean that in a good way...
@hi_shobhit76 (679)
• India
26 Oct 06
I think success in career is much harder than in love because there is no certian saturation to achieve in your career wherein you can go higher and higher and try for getting exxtraa whereas in love you have a saturation which could be a little difficult at times but atlast you getto hear the result soon....and get on with something better...!!! what do you think ?
@HomerBundy (1325)
• United States
26 Oct 06
thanks for your response shobhit - in love you can also go higher and higher...such as : dating to girlfriend/boyfriend to fiance to husband/wife...somewhere in there you can live together too...
@baileym11 (887)
• United States
26 Oct 06
I think success in love is much harder. For my career, effort and degrees seem to pay off. In love, it seems there is always so many ups and downs, and you can't control the emotions of the other person.
@HomerBundy (1325)
• United States
26 Oct 06
thanks for your response bailey - in career you cant always control who/what your boss does or says, therefore making success difficult...
if you were your own boss, finding success can be tougher then finding success in love...
love and career are difficult in general for most people...
@HomerBundy (1325)
• United States
26 Oct 06
have you found more success in love or career.?. what were some challenges you faced.?.
@sirensanssmile (3764)
• Netherlands
26 Oct 06
Success in love is harder. When you get fired you may be sad, but you can pick up and move on quicker. When you have a broken heart it takes time to heal and can sabotage success in a new relationship.
@HomerBundy (1325)
• United States
26 Oct 06
thanks for your response...
getting fired or quiting can also sabotage success in your next career move...you may never be able to recover from being fired...
but i agree that a broken heart can affect one for a longer period of time...
@HomerBundy (1325)
• United States
26 Oct 06
thanks for your response...success in love can be difficult...
@ArsonCuff (3114)
• United States
27 Oct 06
it works like this for me: if I have a good loving relationship with a woman then work sucks and is miserable...if my job is going good, my love life sucks...so it is a back and forth cycle of BS! ha
Truly though, Love is harder to find than a career.
@pumpkinjam (8540)
• United Kingdom
27 Oct 06
I think maybe they are both equally hard to find but success in love is harder than career once you have found both. There are usually ways to lean more and get more experience and education about your career and there is only you involved so if you need help you can get it but in love, there are no books or anything to tell you if you're doing things right and you both have to agree if there are problems before anything can be done.
