I give up

By Gabs
@gabs8513 (48803)
United Kingdom
August 27, 2007 12:29pm CST
http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1257210.aspx Ok first time in ages I post and I have a joker land on it so not bad going lol I know some of you might think I am being to sensitive here but I am sorry the things I went through the other week I can't be asked with it I really can't I am wasting my time writing it is a Joke, sorry if you all think I am making to much of this well I just do not want this kind of response anymore I want People to walk past it if they are going to put silly responses like this in just to make a couple of Cents Sorry for being a cry Baby I just don't want it anymore it is so stupid Love you all
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15 responses
• United States
27 Aug 07
Hi gabs8513:) I went to your other post and saw the comment that upset you. It didn't come across as rude to me, though it certainly was short. It seemed to me, that the person does not have a good grasp of English and was really wondering why the "matter" gave you a headache. I don't think he understood that it was all the barking of the dogs. Just a different take on things...
@gabs8513 (48803)
• United Kingdom
27 Aug 07
Hi there well thank you for that but I think they should have just left it I know it seems I am to sensitive Sweet and maybe I am at the moment after everything that happened here a couple of weeks back Thank you though and I think that you could be right
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@gabs8513 (48803)
• United Kingdom
27 Aug 07
Lol forgot to say I love the dancing Penguin I could just sit here and watch him lol
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• United States
28 Aug 07
Ahhh.. I didn't see a second comment. Maybe I missed the nasty bits. I hope that your day is going better now! Just ignore posters that say rude things. I do...okay, I try to! Penquin says thanks for watching him dance! He loves to dance:) Him and Tinker Bell would have a blast dancing together eh? Mooch...Hi!
• Canada
27 Aug 07
Hi Sweet! I can understand why that response got you a little ticked off. I too would have thought that someone was just doing it to get their post number up, or to get extra cash. I have noticed people doing things like that quite a lot lately, or they leave the post completely blank. Love & Hugzz!
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@gabs8513 (48803)
• United Kingdom
27 Aug 07
I am probably still to sensitive after the last joy I had on here I don't know I think I need to just calm down and not expect the worse when I post Love and Hugs to you
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• Canada
27 Aug 07
I don't think the person said that to be rude sweet. They could have said a lot worse so it could be that your still upset from before and need to relax a little LoL. Love & Hugzz to you and gissi!
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@TerryZ (22146)
• United States
27 Aug 07
Hi Gabs your not being a cry baby at all. I just read the discussion and this person doesnt fit in with us. He or she doesnt know how we fool around. And your right they shouldnt have responded to your discussion at all. Hugs to you and dont let it get you upset.
@gabs8513 (48803)
• United Kingdom
27 Aug 07
Well maybe I am just oversensitive here at the moment I need to stop thinking it is an Attack on me I guess Love and Hugs to you to
@TerryZ (22146)
• United States
27 Aug 07
I think you might be right. This person doesnt know what a sweetie you are!
• United States
28 Aug 07
The posting may have been very short, & obviously from a newbie. Makes me wonder what rock he was hiding under, so we can go & move that rock in such a way that he can no longer hide under it, or maybe even no more rock to hide under. Seriously, I don't think in this case, anything was that bad. I htink he was asking a question but instead of asking, he posted it as a statement.
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@gabs8513 (48803)
• United Kingdom
28 Aug 07
Krazy he probably still was but I am still on defense a bit after 2 weeks ago and I just have try and control that and not think that everyone is having a go at me Thanks again my dear Friend
@royal52gens (5380)
• United States
27 Aug 07
Gabs honey, just chalk it up to an unexperienced poster/joker. He is new with only 42 postings to his credit. He obviously does not know Gissi or you or the life the two of you have together. And the nicest thing about his posting is: he only posted one line so he most likely will not get credit or paid for it. I am sorry he wasted your time and space though. If he continues to bother you, we will round up all of our pets and send them over to the guy's house. That should give him quite a headache, don't ya think? LOL
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@gabs8513 (48803)
• United Kingdom
27 Aug 07
Lol yes I think so to then he will understand what I meant lol Good to see you Warm Hugs to you
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@rosie_123 (6118)
27 Aug 07
Hey Gabs - I have read the discussion, and like someone earlier here said - I think it's just a case that this poster does not have English as his first language, and also really doesn't understand your sense of humour. I don't think any real offence was intended. I have actually seen this a lot on myLot, and it is a hard thing to say without appearing racist (which I most certainly am not!), but there are definately two distinct groups here on myLot. One is the primarily American/British/European group, that talk endlessely about our pets and our love of animals (Gissi, Pyewacket, Lily, Chicha, Buca etc) and, the other is a group who (shall we say) are here for a different purpose (really just to make money - not to interract), and do not understand our attitudes about pets at all - there's is a different culture, and it is when one of these "worlds" posts in another's thread that these misunderstandings happen. I really don't think there is anything bad intended though - just a lack of understanding. I hope you feel happier in the moring - and please don't let this drive you away.
@gabs8513 (48803)
• United Kingdom
27 Aug 07
Thanks Sweetie I think I was just over sensitive I need to stop thinking that People like that are out to attack me It will not drive me away I will not desert my Friends here for anyone and I think Gissi would miss this place to LOL He would certainly miss his little Lily lol
@nannacroc (4049)
27 Aug 07
So sorry to hear this Gabs. This used to be a great site where you rarely got idiots it's a shame the standards have gone down so much. Hugs to you and take care, Gissi said you hadn't been well.
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@gabs8513 (48803)
• United Kingdom
27 Aug 07
I know but I have to say that it has improved a bit again so I really hope it will carry on Maybe I am just over sensitive here but they earn money for that sort of a response and it just Irks me I just deleted 2 Friends because all they where starting as a Discussion is one liners and I left it for 4 weeks no improvement so now I had took the action
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@razcal2267 (15577)
• United States
28 Aug 07
You are not being a cry baby. That is your baby of course you are going to be sensitive and there is no reason you should be sorry about that. Sometimes when you enter a discussion that you do not know anything or much about you end up putting your foot in your mouth and that looks like this was the case here. I am not sure they actually meant any harm but rather just did not have any idea what they had walked in on. When I first started to read about Gissi I thought you were a bit off your rocker. That was a huge part of why I never responded to any of those discussions. As I read more I realized that was not the case at all. I hope that this person will learn the same and faster then I did.
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@gabs8513 (48803)
• United Kingdom
28 Aug 07
Hahahahaha Sweetie well I have to give you this at least you are honest and straight to the Point lol and I love it but I guess maybe I would have thought the same lol I just had to laugh at the Saying of your Rocker I have not heard that in years lol Thank you Sweetie you are a star
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@razcal2267 (15577)
• United States
28 Aug 07
I am glad that my bluntness did not offend and that I was able to give you a laugh.
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@Katlady2 (9925)
• United States
28 Aug 07
I am thinking that maybe the guy really didn't understand the reason behind your headache. From what I saw of his discussions, he seems to be more on the serious side. I'm sorry he ruined your fun though hon. I loved the story. I thought it was too cute. So just let us wonderful friends of yours cheer you up, and try not to let those silly people get to you anymore, please? Love you lots.
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@gabs8513 (48803)
• United Kingdom
28 Aug 07
Ok Sweetie well I still say he should have not responded then lol but never mind You know you have lots of messages at the other Home lol Love you and big Hugs
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@Katlady2 (9925)
• United States
28 Aug 07
Yeah, he really should have just stayed out of the discussion if he truly didn't understand the gist of it. I will go and check the other home soon. Still trying to get caught up here. LOL
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@BlueAngelRS (2900)
• Canada
27 Aug 07
Hugzzzzzzzzzz gabs sweet..I can see how that would be taken the wrong way with that response..I know how it feels to have people do that I had an interesting one I just tried not to let it get to me hugzzzz Sweet you are loved by me a many hugzzz both you and Gissi
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@gabs8513 (48803)
• United Kingdom
27 Aug 07
I know Sweetie I am still getting over my Illness and I am just still to sensitive thats all I love you to and a big Hug to you
• Canada
29 Aug 07
hugzzzz Sweety and I love you too and My baby Angel is with you too hun hugzzzzzz
@worldwise1 (14890)
• United States
27 Aug 07
It's like I told you before, gabs, you have to develop a thicker skin. Don't allow people to ruffle your feathers so easily. You have to stay in the game if you want to be a winner!
@gabs8513 (48803)
• United Kingdom
28 Aug 07
I know but I just hate it and not just when it happens to me when it happens to you or my other Friends to
@lols189 (4798)
27 Aug 07
oh gabs i see someone is trying to take the mick again. please try to ignore this joker as all your discussions are great and of course you know who your true mylot friends are. i just dont see the point why people like this would respond with a response like this as a lot of people on mylot knows you have been attacked something ruthless on here lately and know you are upset. you always put a good mind into your discussions and to mylot. stay strong and take care
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@gabs8513 (48803)
• United Kingdom
28 Aug 07
Thank you Sweetie and yes I know who my Friends are defiantly Love and Hugs to you
@dana234 (2126)
• Spain
27 Aug 07
Hi sweetie, I´ve had a look at the response that upset you. You´re right, it´s better not to answer at all unless you can relate to the subject. Maybe it´s true what answerer number 2 said here and he/she just didn´t understand what you meant. In any case, don´t let one response discourage you. I don´t think you´re being a cry baby. It´s just that not everyone is so kind and considerate as you are. You´re not wasting your time by writing here, because the vast majority of people do want to hear your stories. XXX Dana
@gabs8513 (48803)
• United Kingdom
27 Aug 07
Thank you Sweetie and I think so to but it just upsets me when they do not take the time to figure it I have missed you and I am glad to see you again Sweet xxx
• United States
28 Aug 07
Gabs, personally I don't think you're being to sensitive, You're just speaking your mind and how you feel about alot of child like things that are going on here @ mylot.
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@suspenseful (40326)
• Canada
28 Aug 07
I checked the response and I saw nothing to get mad about it. Maybe it is because I just got reading about a young lady who not only is disabled but has a sister, whom she depends on, who is irresponsible and gets drunk. I do think you are overly sensitive. Why if he had called you a foul name and said things to the effect that he hated, loathed, and despised you, and wrote silly stuff instead of scolding you for letting a tiny dog give you a headache, that would have been different. He's a man and men are supposed to be brave, you know, the He-man type. Besides not everyone here is a dog lover. So don't let a little thing like it bother you.