Do you like to pursue rivalry or feel envy when you see people

@ssh123 (31104)
India
August 28, 2007 10:04pm CST
whom you dislike for some valid reason.
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@faith210 (11233)
• Philippines
29 Aug 07
Hi ssh123! I don't like pursuing rivalries because it tend to stress you and most of the times cloud your judgement. If it is a healthy competition why not but if it reaches the point wherein rivals become bitter and destrucive to one another, then I don't think whatever you are competing for is not worth it. I sometimes fell envious of people's good luck or good fortune but that is just it, no heartaches over it or I won't lose sleep because of it either. Sometimes I just wish I have some kind of life that they have or the kind of fortune that they have but not to the point that I will hate them for that or will I be discontent with what I have. I do sincerely feel happy when people experience something good in their life. Just my thoughts. Take care and have a nice day!
@ssh123 (31104)
• India
29 Aug 07
You seem to be interested in having failsafe (safety locks). Thanks That is a good idea not having rivalrty or to envy someone. Thanks for your interesting response. Have a nice day.
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@ssh123 (31104)
• India
29 Aug 07
Your response has been given BR
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@faith210 (11233)
• Philippines
29 Aug 07
Thanks ssh123! Really appreciate the BR, at least I know I make sense somehow. haha.. Take care and have a nice day!
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@williamjisir (22909)
• China
29 Aug 07
It doesn't make sense to feel envy. It is better to work hard to gain one success after another without staying there doing nothing but feel envy. You have to set an aim for yourself and reach the aim instead of staying there doing nothing and complaining. No pains, no gains. I would always try my efforts for my ideal and great aim in life.
@ssh123 (31104)
• India
30 Aug 07
No pains and No gains is a good statement. You are holding on to some principles in life which will help you tread the path smoothly. Thanks.
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• China
30 Aug 07
Welcome, friend.
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@andyliuzn (991)
• China
1 Sep 07
Hi Sadaananda, I doun't usually judge a guy for whether he/she is good or bad, but it happens that I dislike a kind of persons who don't treat people with politeness and modesty:) Andy
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@ssh123 (31104)
• India
1 Sep 07
A principle which you have is worthy of emulation and thank you for interesting response.
@rladiga00 (1166)
• India
29 Aug 07
I do not develop rivalry though I do not like some people nor I would like to envy them. By doing so, I can keep my mind clear.
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@ssh123 (31104)
• India
29 Aug 07
You are very diplomatic and the policy speaks of it. Thanks.