Plans often have to change

China
August 29, 2007 6:27am CST
I'm a sophomore in college.I find myself sometimes in bad mood these days.I am a person who likes to make plans.I usually consider in advance what I will do and arrange the order and times at which things should be done.I enjoy this type of life,b/c it makes me feel confortable,with litte pressure,But situations change faster than my plans,Sometimes I have to change my arrangements,In those cases,I feel upset.As a reault,I won't complete the tasks in the best way possible.I don't know if this is a serious problem.Will you give me some advice?Thanks in advance for your help....;-)
2 responses
• India
29 Aug 07
try this, dont tell your plans to any one, not even your best friend, keep it in your heart, see if that works. try it. sshhhhhhhhh, apple.
• China
29 Aug 07
hehe,My lovely friend I see you again I'm so happy.I know what you mean,you mean if I make plans which don't tell my friends will encourage me, bc In this case I don't have pressure and then I will do better,I am a person who don't like pressure.Am I right?This is a good advice I will have a try.Thanks for your response..thank you.. sincerely!;-)
• India
29 Aug 07
i am very happy too to chat with this sweet girl who knows what the heart should hold. anyways, whi i told you about being quiet about your plans is because, i have noticed in my life and some others' too, that the moment you tell people your plans they start making their own and some times they colide and can cause you to change your origbal ones, so keep it with you and if the other person has his or her own plans then they will any how go on with theirs. i hope i make some sense you little shy girl. smiles, apple.
• China
29 Aug 07
My lovely friend,thanks for sharing you experance with me,what you said have a great influnce on me, I know what I should do in my future days,I am so happy ,with your help I can solve my problem.Thanks to my lovely friend;-p
@ssh123 (31104)
• India
30 Aug 07
You have to draw a reasonable plan - plans should not become breathing under water. Let there be allocation of space, time and money for changing the plans to suit your requirements and afterthoughts. But never work without plan.
• China
30 Aug 07
hehe,Thank you ,my lovable friend,I know what you mean.I will have a try ,thank you sincerely!
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@ssh123 (31104)
• India
30 Aug 07
You are most welcome.You seem to be on line. Very good morning to you. It is 7.,30 a.m. in Bangalore. I suppose it is around 9 or 9.30 a.m. at your place.
• China
30 Aug 07
hehe,good morning,you are right,the time in my place is 10:35.have a nice day.;-)
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