Why Did You're Last Relationship Fail?

love - love and relationship
Philippines
August 30, 2007 12:38am CST
why did you're last relationship fail? does it take any responsibility or is it all his/her fault?
9 responses
@zer0charly (5619)
• Philippines
30 Aug 07
our relationship never last because I fall out of love with him.is it his fault?maybe..it's because of his attitude..he has an attitude problem that if he's infront of my relatives and friends,he'll show something good..he's a "great pretender"!..but the truth is,he's a backstabber..he's saying a lot of bad words about my friends and my family.and sometimes he'll brainwash me..coz when we're together,I had lots of problems with my family and he's taking advantage of it..good thing my friends never gave up on me.they understands me and when my "helmet crash"..lol.that's when i realize that he doesnt deserve my love.because he never gave love to the people which i also love..and having a bad attitude is a major turn off..and I believe that attitude matters alot..but I dont have any regret on being his boyfriend..coz ive learned alot from him that i can use in my future relationship..
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
thank you for the best response!
@eliezl (766)
• Philippines
30 Aug 07
my last relationship failed due to long distance. i dont like long distance relationship and he is forced to be separated due to his studies. so there goes our relationship......he regretted it though coz he didn't last long in there and opted to come back. however, he is too late for that for i have found another one.
@bluishrose (2291)
• Philippines
30 Aug 07
My last relationship was a long distance one, so basically anyone can figure out the reason hehehe We've met for 2 months and then he went to the province. It didn't work because text messaging and call isn't enough to keep the relationship going and happy. Both of us needed someone beside for comfort and sharing experiences. And its for certain that he will be staying there for good.
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@Malyck (3430)
• Australia
30 Aug 07
my last relationships have all ended because we simply weren't right for one another. there wasn't mutual respect, appreciation, love, trust & responsibility and neither of us were happy. Apart or together. Although I have happy memories and sometimes wish that it could have worked out between me and my ex, we just weren't supposed to be.
@maheksaj (117)
30 Aug 07
its my fault...i did not trust him and started blaming him for all small things and i was over possessive for him and it somewhere choked him.........it was almost i never wanted him to breath fresh air so the consequences tht my relation ship did not last long
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• India
30 Aug 07
i don't want to blame her.... but only one think i know always fault of both person.
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• Australia
30 Aug 07
My last relationship failed because we were both selfish and took each other for granted. We both just sort of phased out and started seeing other people without officially breaking up and then both accused each other of cheating. Thinking back on it, it was really immature and stupid because we had something good to begin with. But we were young and exploring so I don't really blame him or myself for our actions, struth, we were barely more than children. I take responsibility for my actions though because I know that it hurt him - I don't think he takes responsibility for his though. He will come to realise eventually that things always have two sides that need to be considered. We are still friends nonetheless. My current relationship is on a completely different level though...and I am so happy! I'm through with my exploring with others. I'm content to explore with just my partner...he is my everything!
• United States
30 Aug 07
My last relationship failed because I caught another chic on her kneels with my so called man and on top of that he wasn't ready to grow with mentally, when our son was born. He chose the streets instead.
@mbrown81 (114)
• United States
22 Sep 07
my first relationship failed because of me. i had so much doubt on him to the point that there is no trust in me to him. so sad i turn back time! or maybe we are not meant to be!