How does it feel when you dont get even a single response on mylot

India
August 30, 2007 1:31am CST
How do u feel when u start a discussion which u really feel for and no one replies u back?
5 responses
@vinzen (1022)
• India
30 Aug 07
Of course we would all feel bad, but then thats what life is all about, if you are hurt and feel bad, you have two choices, either to sit and brood and cry over it and think negative, or then to think positive, rise up agaoin, and move on. And i prefer doing the latter, as no response does not bother me much, as i feel that what was important for me, may not have been important for anyone, what i felt like discussing, others did not find relevant or they have other better things and topics , which they preferred, so thats ok and alright. Each person to their own choices and preferences, why should we take it to heart and feel bad. Yes, we wait and initally we do feel a little bad, and wonder why no ones replied, but if we keep that in mind right from the start, that maybe no one replies, we are alright then. Plus, we do not choose very common kind of topics, general ones, as those are always answered by many, we choose topics that relate to us or our problems more, so they are ours alone more, so are not responded. so take heart, cheer up and post a response again, am sure it will be answered, we all live on hope isnt it.
• India
31 Aug 07
Definitely. But when you start something that is really close to your heart, no matter how much practical u get somewhere deep down u do tend to expect somethings. and this habbit can't be taken care of coz i think we really can't help the way we feel. yes we do not go on to general topics .Like the other day i saw a discussion asking -" who do u think was a better president:CLINTON OR GEORGE BUSH" and the freak discussion had got some 64 replies. and i was like damn man. but do u think peoople who like to look in to other people's problems and share their sorrows are still left .
@vinzen (1022)
• India
1 Sep 07
Thanks for you response, and yes you are right, we some how cant help feeling bad, and i too hope and pray that there are such peole left, who truly come here for sharing each others lives and would post genuine discussions too. Have a nice day :)
@ddnj2006 (606)
• Philippines
30 Aug 07
it feels awful, thinking no one appreciate your works coz it shows your discussion is not effective. but glad to know to feel even when there is one. (,") Hard to create but easy to comment. But the challenge is more within.
• India
30 Aug 07
It's not that that you are a bad creater or nobody likes your discussion....It's actually that there are many more better than ours & those who like our topic won't have found our specific discussion... Always THINK POSITIVE to move up in your life, isn't it?????
• India
31 Aug 07
it really does. But one response does not really makes me get that guilt off. Surely thinking positive and pitching it one after the other , learning from your mistakes and doin it till u get it right, stayin posiitive shud always be the spirit.
• China
30 Aug 07
Though I will not happy,it means that my topic is not intesting.So other people have no words to response.If you want your discussion to be responsed by other people,you should start some topics that can attract others.I think this one is ok.:)
• India
31 Aug 07
"if one doesn't gets appreciated then make one which does" this shud be reallythe spirit i think. thanx ya this has got descent response for sure.
@touchnshine (2822)
• India
31 Aug 07
Well I feel really bad when I don't get even a single repsonse on my discussions.. Obviously there is no one who will like if they won't get any response to their discussion .. When I was new to mylot .. then at that time I was not getting much responses to my discussions .. but slowly slowly I made very good friends here .. and I don't think I have there is any of my discussion with 0 responses .. though there were some discussions .. but one of my friends started a discussion that he will be answering to my discussion with no responses and I send him the link to my discussions .. and so finally my that discussion also got response :)
• India
30 Aug 07
I have just started with MyLot & thers a long way for me to move......One definately won't like if nobody responses to your discussions from more than 1 lacs of members, rite??? But always be POSITIVE if you want to move up in your life?????