what is the best thing i do??

Philippines
September 2, 2007 7:46pm CST
hi guys!can u help me?i need ur advice ,,i dont know how can i hundle my situation now,im single mom ,i have two kids,and now im inlove to a person who dont really know me ,i lied him before and i want him to know what is really i am ,but im so afraid i dont want him to go or lost trust on me,..what is the best thing i do now?
3 responses
@kennedee (157)
• Philippines
3 Sep 07
To start with.. The best thing that you can do is to tell him the total truth and why you need to lie to him. Prepare yourself to the consequenses of your action. No can't hide the truth to him forever and it it will bad if he'll know your secret to other person. It's better if he hears from you personally. Don't be afraid, if he really loves you he will accept you for who you are. Because if he doesn't think twice. Maybe he's not worth it for your love.
@jackxav (660)
• Philippines
6 Sep 07
i do agree with u.The truth will set us free.And god has plan for us,so not to worry.
• Philippines
11 Sep 07
thanks for ur nice advice,now,my fear is gone ,ur advise really help me...more power to u!
@butterfly39 (3907)
• Philippines
3 Sep 07
Do concentrate more with your kids...it's hard to get involved with somebody who don't really who you are. Keep yourself busy with you kids before anything else...then if you're ready for a relationship then make sure you won't hide something from him. Be honest...and don't let yourself get into trouble again if you're not so sure.
• Philippines
11 Sep 07
hi butterfly! thanks for ur very nice advice i promise next time i make sure that i not hide anything about me ,i do what u advice me next time ,,..u really great adviser! God bless u!
@dchamber (28)
• Malaysia
3 Sep 07
Well in the first place how did you get involved when the person dont even know you. Is it cos you are lonely and bored.
• Philippines
11 Sep 07
im just meet him in the place of my untie, at the first i did not expect my self to full inlove with him ,its too late i lied him already about my self,,and now i dont know how to explain him ,why i lied him ,im foolosh person ....thanks for u and God bless!