Today was My Son's Birthday

@marciascott (25529)
United States
September 5, 2007 6:08pm CST
He would of been 32 today, May he rest in peace. I just wanted to share this with all My friends. He has 2 Children a Boy and Girl, I am glad that he had two children, so I can enjoy them since he is not here. the girl looks just like him, the boy does too, but you know what they say all girls look like their father I think it is true. Have you ever lost a Child? It's hard but life goes on, I know he is in a better place. And I know he is smiling down on me right now! Ok, I will chat later. Thanks Marcie.
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• United States
13 Sep 07
I am so sorry that you lost your son,I know your pain and God Bless you, I too have lost a son and he has a son. My son would have been 22 this past birthday. Here is a site where I made a memorial for my son maybe you would like to do one for yours. www.memory-of.com Here is my son's memorial. http://christopher-anderson-1985.memory-of.com
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@marciascott (25529)
• United States
13 Sep 07
That is really nice that you made a website in Memory of your Son, I can feel you pain as well as you feel mind we don't want to expect it but our Sons is in a better place. we can't question God. God has a plan for all of us. I did check out the site, I will go back and look some mre. thank you for giving me this information. does it cost anything? I sure it does. I will check into it farther. That is good he left a Son they you can enjoy, give his Son a big Hug for me. and Hugs to you, I know exactly what you are feeling. Our Sons are smiling down on us right now!
• United States
12 Sep 07
I'm sorry to hear that you lost a son, but I'm glad you know he's in a better place, smiling down on you. Be joyous, and embrace his children as often as possible! He loves you, and they love you!
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
6 Sep 07
I'm sorry to hear of your lost Marcie.Yes may he RIP.NO I've experienced the lost of a child.Yes he is in a better place.A place where there is no hate,crimes and only Love,peace and happiness.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
6 Sep 07
honey i am so sorry for the lost of your son. i am blessed to have three wonderful well children. so i don't know about the lost of a child, and i pray that i am blessed enough to go first. you are a strong women and for that i give you a big thumbs up
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@ladybug565 (2216)
• United States
7 Sep 07
I am sorry that you lost you'r son, I have never lost a child so I can only imagine. I know it is one of my bigest fears with my own girls. I believe that your son is in a better place and smiling down on you. It is good that you can enjoy his children. How old are they? *Hugs*
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@kenzy_ss (19)
• Egypt
6 Sep 07
happy birthday 4 him
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
6 Sep 07
Loss of any family member is an unbearable loss and one cannot foreget it. I am extremely sorry to hear the sad story and hope your family prays for peace and tranquility to the deceased on the occasion of his birthday.
• India
6 Sep 07
I have only one son and my greatest all-time fear is if I lose him. From where do you get the strength to carry on after your world comes crashing down? Is it the same as watching your grandchildren growing up and watching your son in front of your eyes? With what did you feel the vacuum initially? I may be prodding into old wounds and I would not really mind if you don’t want to respond and lay bare your personal scars, but mothers like you are always in my mind. Whenever I read about a mother who has lost her child, I try to imagine her mental condition and shed a tear for her. May no mother have to go through this ever.
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• United States
5 Sep 07
Hi Marcie, I did not know you lost a son, I feel your pain my friend, I lost a fiance a few years ago and I think about him everyday, in fact a day does not go by that I don't talk to him and think that he is looking down on me. Just as your son is doing with you and his girls. Be well, my friend!
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@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
5 Sep 07
No marciascott, I never lost a child, but I did loss a nephew at age twenty. I was close to my sister and her family so this was quite a shock. In fact, just a couple of days ago I found some pictures taken when he was about 8 or 9 at a thanksgiving dinner and I couldn't finish it because I just started crying. I know my loss is nothing like yours, I am so sorry.