choose a man who loves you?or a man you love?

@eve0922 (364)
China
September 7, 2007 3:15am CST
A difficult choice,right?
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4 responses
@Sheribabe (445)
• United States
20 Sep 07
In a perfect world, we'd have both someone we loved and that loved us in return. Yet this isn't a perfect world... I'd want to be loved and I'd only be with someone I loved.
@eve0922 (364)
• China
20 Sep 07
Yeah,it's not a perfect world ,and we all hope we can love a guy who loves us too,but it's difficult. Thank you ,sheribane.
@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
19 Sep 07
Careful with this. At least a man that loves you is a man that loves you. A man you love may not give a damn about you. I've seen it personally.
@eve0922 (364)
• China
20 Sep 07
Thank you for replying,have a good day!
@sephrenia (567)
7 Sep 07
For me personally it isn't a difficult choice at all. As much as a man loved me, I could never be with him if i didn't feel the same way. It wouldn't be fair on him and it wouldn't be fair on me either because I would probably hurt him anyway because I would resent being with someone I didn't love.
@eve0922 (364)
• China
20 Sep 07
Yes,love is fair,we should take care of the other one just like take care of ourselves. Thank you ,sephrenia,have a nice day!
@izathewzia (5134)
• Philippines
20 Sep 07
I'd rather wanted someone who loves me. i laready experienced holding on to the one I love. But I was only dumped afterwards. I was hurt deeply and regreted it a lot. So this time around, I will hold on to the one of whom i know really loves me.