what would you do if you caught your partner cheating on you?

@alysya (159)
Philippines
September 8, 2007 10:49am CST
what would you do If you were in a mall and you saw your boyfriend/girlfiend with another ??? would you .. A. make your partner see you and announce there and there that you are through? B. keep quiet, hide and just tell him/her when you feel it is the right time? C. just forget him and never talk and ever see him again?
11 responses
@rouwel23 (1353)
• Philippines
8 Sep 07
In this certain scenario, I would choose A. I would make my partner see me, but I wont make a scandal, I would just say hi, and how are you, and say good luck, and that we are through It is an entirely different setting if this happens with your boyfriend/girlfriend that with your husband/wife, I have entirely told my wife that if I ever see her and found out that she is cheating I would divorce her and take our kid with me
@alysya (159)
• Philippines
9 Sep 07
wow.... that's pretty cool of you... for me I would have announced were through...
@alysya (159)
• Philippines
9 Sep 07
but in a right place of course....
@sephrenia (567)
14 Sep 07
If I were to catch my partner cheating on me I would be on him like a ton of bricks! I really dont like people who cheat on their partners so if I were to find myself in that situation i would blow my lid! Saying that, before I met my husband, I warned every guy i went out with that if they cheated, they were going to be very sorry people lol. Most of them had the good grace to walk away from me before they did and the two who didn't, well, they didnt much enjoy the talk they had with my brothers lol
@alysya (159)
• Philippines
14 Sep 07
Oh.. I'm sure If any guy has read this... LOL.. nobody's gonna dare to cheaton you... LOL... well you know I what.. I see a strong woman in you... thanks for the response!
@jesus777 (664)
• Bermuda
13 Sep 07
hi alysa. if i was in that situation i would not confront him right away i would call him later and tell him that i saw him with another woman and i was not pleased with his behavior and i am hurt and i never wanted too see him again or maybe we could just be friends even though he betrayed me another woman but i think i would forgive so we could be friends at least!!!!
@alysya (159)
• Philippines
14 Sep 07
A very nice reaction... and I too think that that is the very best thing a woman should do...
@Sharon38 (1919)
• Jamaica
11 Sep 07
Miss ALysa I vote for C. The confrontation thing is not my style so I would jsut back out and leave him. chances are he has been doing it a long time and if this is the first he may still do it again.
@alysya (159)
• Philippines
13 Sep 07
but what if what you have seen isn't what you are thinking? what if he denies.. or search calls and what if he insist "it's nothing"
@khazeemee (288)
• Philippines
11 Sep 07
i would probably choose B, im a quiet type of person, and maybe i'll tell him everything that i saw when i knew the right time and place for that, i don't wanna embarass myself by comfronting them..
@alysya (159)
• Philippines
13 Sep 07
:)
@wonderful1 (2076)
• China
9 Sep 07
i will choose B., I need his explain, if it is a misunderstanding, then i will forget it. but if he doesn't love me anymore, then i say goodbye to him, and give him a slap in his face, because he should say goodbye to me first, then make a new girlfriend. he should respect me, at lease we loved each other before. fortunately, my boyfriend can't do that thing, because he hate that kind of person.
@alysya (159)
• Philippines
10 Sep 07
Well I'm glad your boyfriend wouldm't do that to you... You're one of the luckiest so always be good to him okey? :)
@pinkhour (70)
• Singapore
8 Sep 07
I would question if the other party is a mutual friend w my partner.. hmm of course if they are behaving like a couple, like holding hands.. I would then make the decision. Most likely, I would choose a B.. and tell him as soon as possible, that we were through.
@alysya (159)
• Philippines
9 Sep 07
yeah I would just do the same thing....
@thefortunes (2368)
• Netherlands
8 Sep 07
Hi Alysya, Having seen your BF/GF in a mall with an other person doesn't mean that he/she is cheating on you. At least if he doesn't act as a guy in love, and holding hands or kissing and embracing the other person. If this is the case, than I will most probably go to them two and ask him to introduce us, but will definitely not start making a fuss right than and there. I would like to see what the reaction of both will be, and will talk to him later when we are alone. According to me is always better to never make a fool of yourself in a public place. And always act as cool as possible in such circumstances will be the best thing to do.
@alysya (159)
• Philippines
9 Sep 07
yes... that's what I mean that they are walking ,holding hands, kissing and all..
@violeta_va (4842)
• Australia
8 Sep 07
where is d I dont see my option on your list. As I am married and have a son with my husband he would need ambos to get out of the mall. I am not jelous time and he knows it but he alko knows that I do not tolerate cheating and I wont tolerate puting my life and the life of our son in danger from some illneses.
• Australia
8 Sep 07
I ment if it was something romantic involved kissing huging holding hands not just him been there with a femail
• India
14 Sep 07
option B..but can't wait 4 the rt tym.i would come bak to home n wait for him..
• Malaysia
14 Sep 07
hi, alysya..erm..i ever happen this..my ex girlfriend have cheating me before. she have with that guy few month and that guy find out that she aready with me then that guy call me and ask me..but at last me have forgive my girlfriend and with her.but now we aready break ..