would you ever date or marry someone who drinks a lot, goes out a lot and smokes

@gesell03 (173)
Philippines
September 11, 2007 4:23am CST
do you have a specific standard or rule that you hope would be the quality of a qualified date, or if you loved the person would you disregard all of this vices?
5 responses
@khazeemee (288)
• Philippines
11 Sep 07
no! never, i don't like the smell of the smoke, it keeps me sick..
1 person likes this
@busta1 (1026)
• United States
13 May 08
well i would try and help her stop but i wouldnt date someone if i new she had this drinking problem really....so no i would date or marry a girl like this
@laurika (4532)
• United States
14 Sep 07
If you like the party I don't see the problem marry the guy like this.It really depend on what kind of person are you.I would not certainly live with somebody who drinks a lot , becuase I don't drink much and being around drunk people annoy me.I smoke, so I would tolerate this habit to somebody else too.
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
19 Nov 07
hi gesell, if i had a clue about this before getting married that he is addicted to things than i may ask him to stop it but if his addiction has crossed a certains atge that it may sound difficult to come back from there than i may not get married to that person. if i come to know about the habits post marriage than i may force him to come out of the habit as if i happen to saty with a smoker i mite die within a few days as i am allergic to smoke and smell.
@ebtenorio (765)
• Philippines
13 Nov 07
for me, I would prefer someone that follows the laws of the God, no matter what race she may come from.