Do you have a best friend?

@magnet (2087)
United States
September 11, 2007 9:08am CST
I had a best friend when I was in high school until the guy she secretly had a crush on started flirting with me. I did not know that she liked him and he wasn't really my type. My best friend that I had in College is missing and no one knows what happened to her. She just stopped eating one day and closed herself off from the world and when I got back from class she was gone. I hope that she is okay. Right now my best friend is my husband.
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@Rozie37 (15503)
• Turkmenistan
12 Sep 07
Sounds like you have had a hard time with friendships. I too, hope that your missing friend is okay. I have never had to deal with someone close to me being missing, but I can imagine that it would be pretty heart breaking.
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@magnet (2087)
• United States
12 Sep 07
Last thing that I heard is that she was going through severe depression so she dropped out of school. I thought that she was okay because when I saw her she was happy most of the time, then all in a sudden she stopped going to class and locked herself in her room.I did a search online and I found an address that I think belongs to her so I am going to write her and see how she's doing and tell her about all the people who's been asking about her.
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@Rozie37 (15503)
• Turkmenistan
12 Sep 07
I learned through my own pain that every smiling face is not a happy one. I hope that you are able to find her and that she is still hanging in there.
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• India
11 Sep 07
I was having best friends when i was in college and school. After marraige i lost touch with them. I have two childrens, my son and daughter and my husband they are my best frinds and i tell lot of things and discuss with them.
@magnet (2087)
• United States
11 Sep 07
That's good that you have a very close relationship with your family. I feel very close to my family also. I feel like I can discuss anything with them. Except I don't tell my children everything right now because they are so young and young children will repeat things outside the household sometimes.
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@vidyasma (91)
• India
12 Sep 07
yes my friends name is Vaishnavi. she comes to my rescue when iam in trouble and she helps me when iam in need she consoles me when iam hurt or sad, she supports me even if iam wrong and then later explains to me that i should have done like this above all that she is my advisor also. i like her alot and she likes me too.
@alamode (3073)
• United States
14 Oct 07
I have had my best friend for over 35 years... we have spent sometimes years apart, but we can always come back to each other and nothing changes. We know each other's hearts, so we respect and trust each other... plus, we have a lot of fun! Happily, our husbands are best friends, too!
@Lydia1901 (16354)
• United States
28 Oct 08
Well Magnet, I hope your best friend from college is ok and she'll turn up soon. I don't like the sound of that at all. No one knows if she is hurt or not, huh?!! I don't like the sound of that at all. I had 3 best friends in high school and now it is down to only one that I talk to occasionally. But, we are not as close as we used to be because now we are separated by many states and we haven't seen each other for over six years. So, it is very hard to talk about something other than what we used to have back in high school days. Now, my new best friend is my husband too. I think that is enough for now, anyway.