When love has become a habit?
By Andy Liu Zn
@andyliuzn (1029)
Guangzhou, China
September 11, 2007 10:47am CST
Do you believe love will last forever?
Do you ever think that the love between you and your partner is actual a habit now that you have been with each other for quite some time? And are in need of her/him or in love of her/him?
I have been in love with my GF for almost 6 years. Sometimes, I free quite werid that I am not sure exactly whether I am loving her like what I felt abotu her in the beginning.
It is said that there are 1000 kinds of love among 1000 couples. Love is really a strange thing to know about
Wish you and your partner love with each other for ever and ever!
WBR,Andy
6 responses
@mdi0318 (54)
• Philippines
12 Sep 07
Yes, i believe that love will last forever, I am happily married for almost 10 years...we encountered problems sometimes, and argued with our differences...but in the end...we still loved each other...so hopefully and i wish we overcome any trials and challenges that we may encounter for the rest of our lives....can you give me some advice to still prosper in this relationship?
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@Mirita (2668)
• United States
12 Sep 07
Well, I have been married for 21 years and looking forward to many many more years of happiness. We got married young ,but we are still very much in love. We always go out together and we are still very excited to be with each other all the time. We get along great and we are both very much alike. I guess, I found my soul mate and our love is eternal.
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@andyliuzn (1029)
• Guangzhou, China
12 Sep 07
Hi Mdi,
Thanks for your experience sharing. I suppose you should be the right guy to teach us how to maintain good relationship and love now that you have been married for around 10 years.
It's nature to quarrel with each other if they both caer of each other. The point is, one side should always say sorry and get together again. Everything will be good if they are still in love with each other.
WBR,Andy
@andyliuzn (1029)
• Guangzhou, China
12 Sep 07
To Mirita,
23 years marriage and you are in love with each other. How amazing it is! Good luck to you and your husband. Wish you and your family the best!
WBR,Andy
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
12 Sep 07
Love blossoms at a right age for a person, but it varies from person to person. It also derives the inspiration from parents, friends, relatives and understanding the happenings in surroundings including influence of TV and computer. Love is always there in a child and child returns the love when you love the child. Within months of birth, love is seen in child and it continues throughout his life. May be when the child is in teens it realised the power of love. Love is not a strange thing, it is most beautiful things bestowed on us by the god.
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
13 Sep 07
I know most of the young people who read your post would answer with all their enthusiasm, about their GF or BF. Most of the time, it is infatuation. No lover will tell something about his or her love in open forum. Psychologists analysed these factors are due to sense of insecurity in love that makes them go on announce (even to the extent of informing to GF or BF. More the publicity more the merry for them. It is only matured person who keeps it as most intimate relationship in tact which I am sure both the parties like it that way.
@andyliuzn (1029)
• Guangzhou, China
12 Sep 07
Hi Sadaananda,
Thanks for telling me your understanding of love.
Yep, love is a beautiful thing and every one might have his/her understanding of it, and love is always there among family members, co-workers, schoolmates...
WBR,Andy
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@pendragon (3350)
• United States
12 Sep 07
I really believe that we will do just that, thank you my friend,same to you!
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@andyliuzn (1029)
• Guangzhou, China
12 Sep 07
Hi Pendragon,
Thanks for supporting. With you the best and have a nice day!
Andy
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
11 Sep 07
Love could become a habit, I think. Of course, when you first make friends and become lovers, you have the fresh feeling, but once you have been friends or lovers or wife and husbands for some certain years, it is very natural for you not to have so fresh a feeling as you used to. But you are still loving each other in a very harmonious way without any need to say words like 'I love you', because what you do to your lover every day is saying to him or her that you love her. Ok, I will stop going further as love has always been a everlasting topic. Wish you happy with your love as always.
@andyliuzn (1029)
• Guangzhou, China
12 Sep 07
Hi William,
Thanks for your point of view here, you are on my mind, though I suppse there are more responsibility than love after two people get married. I do wish me and my GF could love each other for ever and ever.
Love is really not an easy topic, and it makes me feel confused too although I have been in love with her for a couple of years.;)
WBR,Andy
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@michaeldadona (5684)
• Malaysia
12 Sep 07
Will never believe love last forever. If you put hope, definitely you will fail. With my partner? No more love. As love will come after feeling missing. Just like food, will look once hungry.
I agree for that statement, one person has one criteria of love. So proven that love is breath. Make sure it has the equilibrium in inhale and exhale.
MY CONCLUSION;-
Never believe in love but please give foster to love.
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@andyliuzn (1029)
• Guangzhou, China
12 Sep 07
Hi Michael,
Thanks for your opinion on love/relationship. You are a person of personality.
The parable of love is breath is quite cool, we do need the love as well as breath, without love, we couldn't live on.
WBR,Andy
@ayesha_nisha (289)
• India
12 Sep 07
Love does not becum a habit but....ur way of responding like.....ya i love u too...this may make u think yaa im bored f this girl...u just try not to talk with her atleast one month..if its true love no one can do it...n now as it became a hobby u may say v will call bak..ryt???
but tats not ur habit but love..i feel this.
