Do You Ever Think About Your High School Crushes or First Loves?

@Aurone (4758)
United States
September 11, 2007 10:53am CST
I dreamed about this guy who I had the worst crush on in High School. Which got me wondering about where he is now and how his life turned out. Do you ever think about your crushes from High School or your First Loves?
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• Malaysia
21 Sep 07
yuup! i got crushed with one of my best buddy when i was 19 years old. before this i never got crush on anyone. i just fall in love with them.i remember when he celebrate my bithday together. it's kind of suprise for me but i like it. we do lots of thing together.once, he got injured in his tournement, i was so sad and worried and could't even close my eyes to sleep.damn i really love him so much.not long enough he fornd out that i got crush over him and we dind't talk for a while. actually he already have a girlfriend but we spend more time together than her girlfriend. once i been scoled by her girlfriend but that's fine by me because the secret is both of us found out that we had fallen in love.he broke up with his girlfriend and we become lovers for a while but not too long, we break up because he has to go somewhere else and we lost contact. what a pity for me. a sad-sad love story..
@Aurone (4758)
• United States
21 Sep 07
That is a sad love story. So sorry he had to leave.
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• United States
12 Sep 07
I do sometimes, but it's hardly ever in the good type of light. Some of my earlier ventures into love were not that great and there isn't a time where I think of them romantically or wish things had been better. I wish I had been smarter. But I mean, who doesn't think of this sort of thing? I think it's really human nature, to think about your past. I just don't have anything good to remeber them by. I use them as learning experiences and keep my eye out and watch for those same pattern types to emerge again.
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@Aurone (4758)
• United States
12 Sep 07
I guess some of us had unrequited love in high school and others had bad dating decisions. Goddess I am glad that part of my life is over.
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• India
23 Sep 07
yeah ! who will want to forget those sweet memories !!!
@khazeemee (288)
• Philippines
13 Sep 07
vanessa with ashlee tisdale - hsm co-star ashlee tisdale
yep i do.. its kinda silly but sometimes i really do..just wondering how they are now, and if they are in a relationship..
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• United States
1 Oct 07
I have thought about what could have been between me and my first love. What if the child I miscarried were to be born? Would my first love have come back to me? He left me when I spoke the words "I'm late". Would I have wanted to take him back? Would life have been different? Would I have had the 4 kids that I so adore now? Just a thought, it passed.
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@Aurone (4758)
• United States
1 Oct 07
I guess we all have those what might of been thoughts, but in truth they usually pass and most of us would not trade what we have now for that might of been.
• Philippines
25 Sep 07
i had a crush on someone way back in my college years but at that time i think that if he knew we would end up being together but i was not yet ready to be in a relationship that time. so when he courted me, i dumped him not realizing that he had really clean intentions for me. for some years i really avoided him but later on when fate let us saw each other in a very unexpected occasion, i was shocked to hear him say that he still likes me.. and i really still liked him a lot too. we've been through different relationships for the time that we have no communication. he told me he really want to get in touch with me but i was really out of reach and so busy with my own life totally forgetting about him. we decided to give it a try and we both realized that we really enjoy being together and loving each other. i just regret the time i hesitated to be with him. but nonetheless, God really brought us together.. i just hope and pray that we'll continue to be happily in love with each other for a lifetime and more... :)
@Aurone (4758)
• United States
25 Sep 07
What a nice story. Good Luck for your future.
@worldwise1 (14887)
• United States
11 Sep 07
As a matter of fact, Aurone, I do. Every once in a while I will recall the good old days, and a certain someone from my past. I think most of us do this at times. Maybe we are just wondering what path their lives took, or we also might be wondering just what might have been.
@Aurone (4758)
• United States
11 Sep 07
Thats true. I think, I think of this particular crush often, because he was a failure of mine. He was having a hard time at home--his family was particularly unsavory. And I wish I was the person then that I am now, so I could have been a better friend to him. But we are all too wrapped up in ourselves in high school to help anyone else.
11 Sep 07
hi, i often dream about my forst love i was 15 and lost my virginity to him to, however we broke on really bad circumstances and i never really saw him much after, now i am happily settled with 2 children and still find myself having these really weird dreams about him - whick i sometimes find disturbing, but i suppose its the price we pay for falling in love
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@Aurone (4758)
• United States
11 Sep 07
Indeed.
@Angelwriter (1956)
• United States
11 Sep 07
I had a crush on a guy when I was in the sixth grade. He was in eighth. I was thinking about him one day, and looked him up on one of those websites for finding people you went to school with. He's married and a minister.
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@Aurone (4758)
• United States
11 Sep 07
A minister? Interesting. I can't find my high school crush or my college bf on-line. They both seem to be untraceable.
• United States
11 Sep 07
Every day. I'm happily married 14 years now but I was engaged to someone else when I left for college. Yes, it was stupid getting engaged that young but, of course, hindsight is 20/20. The thing was that I was totally and completely in love with her. I would have followed her to the ends of the earth. She said she felt the same but she was young and as people that age are prone to do, she figured out that she really didn't love me enough to endure the distance when I left for school and she broke up with me three weeks after. So, yes. I think about her every day. She told me one day that she'd call me "tomorrow" and then walked out of my life forever. I've had a few dreams about her, none of them pleasant.
@Aurone (4758)
• United States
11 Sep 07
I am so sorry to hear that. Perhaps some day you will heal. Blessed Be.
@ebtenorio (765)
• Philippines
13 Nov 07
High School Love(s)? I do. But not in the way I thought of them when I was in love with them then... Hehehehe... :D
• Canada
25 Sep 07
I didn't have a lot of crushes or first loves in highschool, so there really isn't anyone for me to think about. I'm married now, to a wonderful man, so there is no need for me to go back and think about crushes and first loves, even if I had any.
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• India
12 Sep 07
no..no chance also..bcos i was in from girls school..n outside f my school i always had a bad impression on boys..bcos they always coment on girls..i used to ate them..but noww...hmmm hehhehe
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@clocks123 (1228)
• United States
11 Sep 07
no, i don't want to think of those crushes that is all they were crushes not real love-- infatuations which don't last
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• Philippines
11 Sep 07
I think about my first love sometimes. He is anyway so special because he is also my great love. Sometimes, I would even dream about him. About my high school crush, I don't think I have any. I do have a crush in college and sometimes I remember him because we used to be the best of friends then but I cannot find any details about him on the net.
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