it's not a question of TRUST omg!

Philippines
September 13, 2007 1:28pm CST
my boyfriend always told me that I DON'T TRUST HIM everytime i get jealous! Is that really it?
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5 responses
@xfahctor (14128)
• Lancaster, New Hampshire
13 Sep 07
I guess it depends on what it is you are jealous of. If you are jealous of other women, do you trust him not to do anything? You can say "it's not him I don't trust, it's the other women" But it takes 2 to tango so to speak. If you trust HIM not to do anything, then nothing is going to happen no matter how willing another woman might be, do you trust him to NOT be willing do do anything? if so, then there is no issue, relax.
• Philippines
13 Sep 07
you got a point there. I trust him but i don't trust the people around him maybe that is why. Heheh.. thanks you made me realize something. Hhehe
@xfahctor (14128)
• Lancaster, New Hampshire
13 Sep 07
no problem :)
@tuhpaul (475)
• India
13 Sep 07
Well what do you tell yourself? First are you or do you really get jealous and of what?I dont think you are jealous but I feel you are very possessive - and thats natural.Just have an open mind and things will fall in line-this is part of life-you ought to face it,my friend.
• Philippines
14 Sep 07
I guess i will just get of being jealous all the time.
@eprado (1473)
• Philippines
17 Sep 07
Hello ruzzychai0330, Is it not really a question of trust? I once had a girlfriend before who easily gets jealous all the time. I can't even go out with my friends without her getting jealous or If I forgot to send a text message to or call her. I always tell her that she doesn't trust me when she's jealous. Sometimes I feel that everything or no matter what I do won't please her until it come to a point that I stopped caring anymore. We broke up. I find nothing wrong in getting jealous as long as there's a valid reason for it. But if there's none I don't like it. If you really trust a person then let them be because if they are really doing something wrong your bound to find it out no matter how hard they try to hide it. :-)
@cycy113 (15)
• China
17 Sep 07
well, i guess in a relationship, girls are always to be jealous easily, maybe you can talk to him for some time, and tell him what you think:)
@emquinsat (1059)
• Philippines
13 Sep 07
It's not really a matter of trust. Jealousy is a feeling brought about by simply caring too much to the point of worrying about losing someone because of some other person or thing.