Do you know someone who always cancels plans?

One of my guy friends in particular would cancel due to family issues. But other than that, half of my exes would cancel dates a lot of the time. It did get tiring and I didn't put up with it for long. Once anyone starts flaking on me with some crappy reasons, they are gone.

Oh yes, I friend who does that too! Finally I just stopped inviting her. I have since then re-evaluted my friendships. So it was like this, I would do the same thing ask her to do something she would flake. Then finally like two months ago my phone number got changed. I decided to see how long it was until she showed up wondering what was going on. Yeah she just showed up YESTERDAY!!! I'm friends with her sister too, very good friends. And I guess she kept asking her sister about what was going on with me, but never felt it nessesary in two months to drop by. ESPECIALLY when she works five minutes down the road. So because I a such good friends with her sister when she showed up I kept things kosher. But I told her that I figured that she was doing her thing, and I was doing mine. Truthfully I have figured out that she is a prime example of the difference between a friend and a equaintence!! Like my mother always said, "everyone has a suchness, a way that they 'just are' and you have to learn it, and file them into your life accordingly. I understand now what she meant

I have a sister that is kind of like that. It drives me crazy. I live 1100 miles away from her and the rest of my family. Every time we plan on going home, this sister asks me when we are going to be there, and when we are going to be available to hang out and whatever else. And then she flakes out and makes all these other plans. The first time we went home, she volunteered to be a camp counselor, even after she knew we were going to be there that week. The next time we were home, she agreed to go shopping with my son, me and one of our other sisters. After we had been shopping for about an hour, her then boyfriend called and said that someone wanted to take them out to dinner, so my sister decided she HAD to go with her friends that she sees every week or two instead of her sister and nephew that she never gets to see. She threw a fit when our other sister refused to take her home, and made her boyfriend come get her. Last time I was home, was for this sister's wedding. She didn't hang out with my son or I at all, and we even went home a week earlier than her wedding just to spend time with her! She also made us show up to the wedding early (her wedding was during my then 16 month old's normal nap time as well) for pictures, and then didn't have any pictures taken with us anyway. She was mad because we didn't sit in the front part of the church, but I had a cranky toddler to deal with! Anyway, next time we go home, we're not making any plans with her. We stay with my parents most of the time when we are home. If she wants to see us, she can just come there. They only live 25 miles from where she does.

Yeah, espcially when it's not your idea, it's theres. Been there. I mean, if they don't even give you a definite plan, it's more annoying. So you wait for a solid get together, and then last minute they decide, and they expect you to drop everything. Do you think she's having serious problems like anxiety? Or is she more inconsiderate in this as well as everything else?

Hi there, yeah i have known some people who's like that ever since. They are my friends and we are good friends, and because we are good friends, maybe they always think that way and they are thinking that it would always be ok for me if they will cancel our meetings or plans for some trips, and so it's kinda annoying but they always sorry but still, they always does. Have a nice day ahead from Kiko and happy posting and earning here in MyLot and Godspeed.

yaa..its my brother in law.....i hate ven he does something like tat..he tells v would o to movie etc etc etc..at last makes a call of sorry..im vexed n never ask 4 anything unless he comes n takes me..hehhe