i want to cry.....help...
September 16, 2007 2:59am CST
how would i start this ...hmmm.... i am a nursing student...my aunt who married an american is the one who sent me to school. now, she is sick... cancer...she asked help from us... we did tried so hard to help her... but it seem that fate wont permit us... we are not in good health to be a prospect donor... his husband cannot understand our situation. what shall i do...after we e mailed him that we are not in good condtion to be the donor as our doctor said, he e mailed us with this " DONT EXPECT FURTHER HELP FROM US IN THE FUTURE" . i felt so down... i wanna scream and shout... i felt like my heart is starting to come out ....
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16 Sep 07
Oh dear this is a sad situation, I am nor sre just anyone can be a donor for things anyway and for cancer I am not sure it is that easy, it is sad that they have taken this path, when people help someone it should be unconditional as everyone must travel their own course, I think maybe they are just still taken aback with their new situation and maybe will see the truth down the track, I don't think there is much anyone can really do but give emotional support when it comes to cancer... you must not take a guilt trip over this...but just make it known that you are there for her in other ways... good luck..
16 Sep 07
O Very sad dear, i feel the pulse of you, and your eagerness and noble heart to help others, but demanding situations had made you to be in a fix, and that you cant help your Aunt. Just leave out the matter, and if you are a believer in God, pray for your aunt's well being..and if you are an atheist, believe me that time will let you Aunt's Husband to understand your feelings and will one day or other will repent/feel sorry for his curt/stern remarks.