did you come from a broken home?
September 16, 2007 7:08pm CST
are your parents divorced mine are my dad used to live here in a seperate apartment of the house and now he is moved tot eh boston and remarried abother woman at first i hated his new wife and her daughter and i have never met but i felt really hurt because i felt that they were my farther away from me and it hurt me really bad because i get along much better with my dad then my mom i live with mom still now and it is not a pleasant situation at all its very unpleasent she calls herself a christian but she is very nasty to me she does not show any christ like qualities those of you who know the power of prayer please pray for ym strength in the lord and pray for my finances for a wya for me to get awy from her and here because i am very unheappy here all she speak over me is nagativity so those of you who know the power of prayer and believe in god and jesus is lord please pray that god gives a way of escape out of here thank you and god bless you
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17 Sep 07
Nope my parents are happily married for 20 years now and my family are perfectly intact. I have friends from brokn family, as I hear their stories, I'm thankful that I don't havethose expeienced that they have. I think I'm lucky and thank God that my parents still inlove with each other and that I have a happy family although not perfect. Just keep praying and trust God. Pray also for your parents especially for your mother that she may changed for the better.
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17 Sep 07
i'm also from a broken family. I never thought that it would happen to me during my childhood life. my life was just miserable for that but i'm praying to the Lord that if possible He would help me to go with my emotional needs.bu tfor now, i learned to live without my father and i learned to go on with my life. life goes on and its no use of thinking and crying for that. i remained strong and learned to stand on my own feet. thanks be to God!!!
• United States
17 Sep 07
i was totally in your shoes when i was 16..my parents got divorced when i was about 10 but they were separated for awhile because my father did go to prison for a couple of years..and they did separate for awhile and my mom got pregnant with another mans baby during that time and my dad had another girlfriend..well they eventually got back together and finally divorced...my dad got remarried and so did my mom years later..after my dad left the house i didnt see him for three years..i was in virginia and he was in new mexico... when i finally reachedd high school my mom met her boyfriend (now husband) and proceeded to leave us with my grandmother to be with her new BF..now that was pretty hurtful though the worst thing she did was to move us to north carolina with her in the middle of my sophomore year to be with her boyfriend i really disliked her boyfriend..hes an A*HOLE to the extreme hes called my sister a b*TCH and uses stupid metaphores for the weirdest things..i ran away from home when i was 16 and i never looked back i didnt have any money took as much as i could with me and i never looked back i went with my boyfriend and then later i went to my dads because my mom threatened my BR with the cops..stick in there just wondering how old you are..if ure underage u might qualify for emancipation from your mom..i do hope everything works out and feel so bad for you because ive been in your shoes...good luck! god bless!
17 Sep 07
My parents broke up when I was 10, the year before I started high school, to be honest it didnt affect me to much, I was use to my mum having a go at my dad every night for being lazy. It was good at the beginning not having to close the doors from their yelling, not only that I saw my dad on the weekends. Couple months later though it got abit awkward, he started saying someone who he knew from before and at the time she was a b*tch and I didn't get along too well, which hurt cause I was really close to my dad. But then something happened between my brother and my dad and then my brother stopped going round and started having a go at me constantly for visiting him, it was hard at first cause I was pretty close to my brother but that only got worse over time and then alot of stuff happened between me and him. Am only now starting to get along with him after awhile of hating each other, I blame my dad for losing my relationship with my brother. Currently I still talk to my dad and see him occassionally, but he wasnt really apart of my life during my teenage years. About 3 years after I stopped talking to him for the first time cause of my brother he rang me up and said he was getting married(to the woman from earlier). I guess I just learnt to get along without my dad, it use to bother me but it doesnt anymore.
• United States
17 Sep 07
My parents divorced when I was about six years old. He was cheating on my mother with her bestfriend who was also married. It was hard. Very hard. He moved on and somewhat forgot about me. (only child). He went off to marry the woman he was cheating with and had two children. I am now 23 years old. I used to question God and why he did things like break up my family. I used to be jealous of people that had both of their parents. Until one day I became more involved in faith. Faith that everything has a reason. Sometimes we do not know the reason and sometimes never will but there is. I look back and have adjusted well. I don't speak to my father anymore. I love my mom for being the strongest person I know without building a wall. I know that you too will get through this. It sucks. I know it does. Have faith my friend and my prayers are truly behind you.
17 Sep 07
I don't come from a broken home but my i live in a dysfunctional family since my father works abroad and comes home every two years... before he comes home every year but he transferred to a work where in the contract stated that he can come home every two years but vacation time is 2 months... it is not a broken home but almost the same since we don't see much of him... it has been like that since i was a little girl... so i don't really know my father that much...
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
17 Sep 07
I came from a very broken home, but I'm not sure how comfortable I am answering your post because it is so heavily focused on a religion I am not part of. *forges ahead anyway* My own history is... bleak. The past is like a pit of darkness that I fall into sometimes if I'm not careful. My parents were divorced when I was so young that I barely remember them being together... I do have a really vague memory involving dishes being thrown around the kitchen, but I'm not sure if it's a real memory or something someone else told me happened that my mind created a memory for. Rather than living with one of my parents, I was bounced around between various family members throughout my childhood. Almost all of them abused me. When I did live with my mother, it would be for brief periods... she would come to pick me up unexpectedly and then drop me somewhere unexpectedly when she was done "playing Mommy". She has left me at parties, left me with people she barely knew, moved away while I was at school so that I came home to an empty apartment and a landlord who told me I no longer lived there. *sighs* I lived with a grandmother whose husband sexually abused me. My father lived with my grandmother sometimes too, but he would lock himself in his basement rooms and I would sometimes not see him for months, only to finally see him completely drunk out of his mind. I lived with aunts who let their dogs bite me and then blamed me. I lived with friends of various family members... and sometimes I had nowhere to live at all. I must say that I am sorry for you that your situation is not pleasant, and I do wish you all the luck in the world getting out of it, but from my perspective it sounds like your situation could also be much worse.