Do Looks Matter?

@ebusaf (329)
United States
September 17, 2007 1:48pm CST
Would you prefer someone who looks good, or someone who has a good personality? I grew up in Los Angeles, where everyone is so worried about their outer appearance. When I joined the military I realized that I was quite shallow in some ways. As I grew up, I realized that the outer appearance means nothing. The true stud is one with a great personality, has a fear of God, and not selfish. What do you think? What is the first trait you look at, when looking for a companion? Not only in intimate relationships, but in friends as well. I know some people, like to hang around good looking people only, which I think is crazy.
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• India
17 Sep 07
To the emotional world which includes me looks doesn't matter to a great extent but to the practical world looks sometimes matters a lot. In odays world most of the people see your outer appearance first and then your qualities and talents. But as I said that looks doesn't really matter much to few people. For example, however ugly a son may be...but he is always the most beautiful and handsome to his mother. This is pure affection where nothing else matters.
@ebusaf (329)
• United States
17 Sep 07
You are so right about that. All my kids are beautiful in my eyes.
• Philippines
20 Sep 07
Hi there, what's been up to lately buddy? Well, i'be had my own discussion as well that talks about if looks is really matter by having a friend. As i have said, Looks for me is not that important as i prefer to have pals with a big heart and good attitude. being a down to Earth person and somewhat funny or humorous are the types of people that i really admire most. However, it would be really cool if we do have big hearted good looking pals, isn't? Have a nice day ahead and happy posting and earning here in mylot. Godspeed, Kiko
@gwendovere (1283)
• United States
17 Sep 07
I prefer someone with a good personality. In relationships as well as friendships. "Beauty is only skin deep."