she's stole my heart.....

Philippines
September 18, 2007 4:49am CST
its been a month snce she break me up...at first i try to forget her and mke some thngs that wud mke me happy and escape from my heartaches...and its good!!!but aftr few months i send her a messge askng her if she's ok and wt she's doing...she rplied dat she's ok and rili mizz me...dat tym all my effort in doing such thngs to forget her bcome useless...i felt love!!!!....and now she said to me dat she had someone spcial...i dont wt i feel,...i cnt do anythng bcoz were apart...she's in canada and im hir in philippines...she had promise me dat aftr 2yrs.she wll come bck and contnue our rltionshp...im waiting for almost 1 yr. and stll waiting eventhough that she had her new...all i can do here is to cry and wait for the next step of her lyf...she rili stole my heart,and i dont wnt to get it from her...i want to see her and hold her hand even for a few minutes and tell her how much ilove her....
7 responses
@molusk (857)
• Philippines
19 Sep 07
She is in Canada and you are in the Philippines. My experiece was she was in the States and I was also in the Philippines. I can honestly say that I knew the feeling for I was there before. The situation however was different for me. We were young then. We were madly in love and every moment we shared was one of pure happiness until one day when her family forcibly took her away from me and sent her to the States. After that, she became a blank wall in my life - no letters, no nothing whatsoever. What remained of her were only the sweet memories we have had together. And so for that matter,looserkid, take stock of yourself. Be strong. You are still young and for sure you will be able to meet other girls who can give meaning to your life. Cheers!!
@alansmile (284)
• Malaysia
19 Sep 07
Wow... Very touch by your story there. Dude,you are so in love. I envy you,after broke up and still have a great relation with your ex and she still misses you. Anyway, best of luck to you.
@khazeemee (288)
• Philippines
18 Sep 07
it's sad to know that she had someone new now, in my opinion you should continue what you have done before, i mean try to forget her again and move on with your life besides she already begun to open her heart to someone else, maybe she misses you for some reason like as a friend.. don't self-imprisoned yourself with the world that doesn't exist anymore. if she's really the one for you, God will make a way to get her back into you.
• Philippines
18 Sep 07
Hi looserkid! Go to the mirror and ask yourself, Am I stupid thinking and waiting for her to come? If the answer is YES, go out and start looking for one. .. Life is too short. Don't waste your time thinking about her. the fact that she was able to find a new love in Canada only shows that you are not perfect pguy for him. Go and move on. Don't look yourself as a loser because there are other beautiful women out there. Even better than your EX. I'm sure you'll find one. Good luck.
• Philippines
18 Sep 07
geee. i will never escape that kind of feeling broken heart its realy takes long process, mybe becouse you dont try to find way, the more to run to it the more you feel crazy so why not face it. its not the heart that feel the pain its in our mind set up for it. its a matter of how you handle and accept things in life.i been in the same essue as much as atry to avoid him the feeling is getting worsed.so i face it and offer a frienship and contented of what we have.and do things that interest me, i work and work and keep my self bussy, i even enrolled to some yoga class.till i feel exhousted.and knock out my self in bed.every single day.life never stop here, you have a long way to go.its a matter of time and time can heal.now i enjoy my life and talk to him sometimes he is u.s now.i open my self for a date.but if he will come back then we are mean to be. but dont expect it. thats the most crazy thing to do, "waiting'.it maybe crushed you down.leave the thing that it is.go and live your life.
@shy_gal (235)
• Malaysia
18 Sep 07
For me, it is too tough and difficult having relationship between two difference location. Because there might happen something that under control by us, for example, she will fall in love in someone while we at here missing her so much. Then we cant take care of her while she needs a person to stand beside with her. Waiting someone is a difficult matters, how if she din come back after 2yrs????wat u will do??So u have to make sure your feeling on her, is your relationship is tough enough??
• Philippines
18 Sep 07
I was touch by your story. I know it is too painful for you but I think you have to move on. If she's happy then you have to give way and say hello to your tomorrow. Ask her if she's happy with her new special someone then say goodbye to that love that you felt for her. I know it's not easy as 1 2 3, but I want you to know that forgetting is not the solution, ACCEPT, accept the fact that she has her own happiness now. But if she says that she still love you then let her choose., The best thing to do now is to let your self be happy. Again, DON'T FORGET, JUST ACCEPT! Goodluck and God Bless.