the rumour is true, I AM A VIRGIN!!!!!!!!

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@xboxboy (5578)
September 18, 2007 12:23pm CST
Why is there such a stigma to being a virgin? i am 16 and yes, i am a virgin. whats the big deal? i'll worry if im still one when im 50! What age did you lose your virginity?
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34 responses
• United States
18 Sep 07
Only thing it is pressure. The think if you hear it enough you'll think it's a big deal, which it ain't. If people keep telling you hey you're a virgin and trying to rub it in. I would say jealous much. Because that's all it it is jealously becuase you've waited and all the boys know that's she's easy and you're not. Good Luck
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@xboxboy (5578)
18 Sep 07
yeah, too true! im not ashamed to cry out 'I AM A VIRGIN!'
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@laydee (12814)
• Philippines
19 Sep 07
Yeah you should not be ashamed. I lost mine at a late age too. It feels great and proud to have waited for the right one for you. People should be ashamed losing it for lust and fun though.
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@hailie17 (448)
18 Sep 07
I lost mine before i was sixteen and i regret it in a major way. I think it's best to wait for someone who you really care about and is worth it. That's what a lot of people, including myself, don't seem to think about! Well done you for being a virgin and proud!
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@xboxboy (5578)
18 Sep 07
i guess i have no choice! lol!
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@beaniegdi (1966)
18 Sep 07
There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 16, it is better than being 16 with an std and a pregnant girlfriend. Just enjoy your life there is plenty of time for all that, you have the rest of your life.
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@xboxboy (5578)
18 Sep 07
i am looking forward to giving up comics for ladys! i do not want to wait to long! strange thing is, it is the ones that get really drunk at the weekend that claim to be bedding everybody. probably full of overactive imaginations as well as full of drink!
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• Canada
18 Sep 07
I was 20 or 21. When I was yonger people always thought that I wasn't a virgin and would freek out when I told them I was. They'd be like "YOU could not be a virgin!" I was like "why not" and didn't understand why this person was reacting they way they were. I was told when I was about 19 that I couldn't be a virgin looking the way I did. Whatever. I didn't really care. One of my friends is 26 and a virgin. They guy I was with my first time was 24 and a virgin. So it's up to the person and when they are ready. I think people just expect guys to lose it a lot earlier than females.
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@xboxboy (5578)
18 Sep 07
that is a great story, it makes me feel a lot more at ease with myself. thanks for that. you are the top cheeks on the cats pyjamas!
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• Canada
19 Sep 07
lol. Top cheeks on the cats pajamas!! That's too funny. I like that. Don't know what it means but I like it. You have a great sence of humor. The shinning the helmet had me giggling.
@ernestman (306)
• Philippines
20 Sep 07
Its good to give up virgin to your husband and whole life through....
• United States
20 Sep 07
Um, he's a male. Also, you're sexist. Women are not just made up of their virginity.
@xboxboy (5578)
8 Feb 08
thanks gloom!
@gradyslady (4055)
• United States
19 Sep 07
I'm going on 22 now and I'm still a virgin, and proud of it. It's a choice of mine to wait. Now only if more people had this power.
@xboxboy (5578)
19 Sep 07
yeah, it's hard to refuse sometimes, but better that we do to make it all the more special when it happens!
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• United States
19 Sep 07
Agreed, definitely.
@Stiletto (4584)
19 Sep 07
14 and it was way too young. Nothing wrong with being a virgin at 16. At 36 or 46 it would be a cause for concern but not 16. By the way - if teenagers are the same as they were when I was one (all those years ago) then most of the ones you know probably still are virgins too. The only difference is they don't admit to it.
@xboxboy (5578)
19 Sep 07
i hope so! or im in the whickerman for being the only virgin in town!!!!
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@sweetcakes (3505)
• United States
19 Sep 07
stay a virgin. don't let people pressure u. but i lost my virginity when i was 15 years old. and got pregnant so that's nothing to brag about. if i could do it all over again i wouldn't make that same mistake. but hey. you learn from your mistake and u move forward. that's how i see it.
@xboxboy (5578)
19 Sep 07
you are another example of the strength of character that mylot has loads of. i have met so many people that are so strong like yourself in the last few days it makes me proud to be a member of mylot.
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@saunty (604)
• India
19 Sep 07
well !! dont know much about others , but for me i am still virgin , nor even thinking of breaking it so soon...
@xboxboy (5578)
19 Sep 07
good for you! i don't know what the rush is for everybody!
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@cripfemme (7718)
• United States
19 Sep 07
I was 21. Make sure you like/love the person and don't yield to anyone's pressure.
@xboxboy (5578)
19 Sep 07
i hope i have the strength to always say no until it is the right time!
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• China
19 Sep 07
I am a chinese girl, 22 years old.And I am a virgin now.This topic in China is still taboo. We chinese people are less open than western people.(most people) I still think I should give mine to my Mr.Right after marriage.
@xboxboy (5578)
19 Sep 07
great to hear your opinion as it is from a different culture. thanks for that and i agree with you!
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@dopey22girl (3326)
• United States
19 Sep 07
There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin. I personally think it is a good thing, and sometimes wish I was still one. I lost my virginity right before I turned 17. Stay a virgin until you find someone you truly love, and you know you will be with them forever!
@xboxboy (5578)
19 Sep 07
i hope to meet someone soon as it is really difficult keeping it in and saying no! but hopefully it will be the right person that i meet!
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@katkat (2379)
• Philippines
19 Sep 07
Its not really a big deal if you think about it. It is more likely of peer pressure. Be proud f yourself being a virgin, its just means that you have control on your self.
@xboxboy (5578)
19 Sep 07
thanks, it's been tough!
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@sephrenia (567)
19 Sep 07
hey there, I totally admire you for holding out and not giving in where your friends might have done. I wish to goodness I had held out and I have no excuse except I was young and foolish (and responding to another earlier situation in the only way i knew how). I lost mine when I was 10 to a 12 year old boy who was unbelievably persuasive (yes I know I was young, please dont beat me for it, i do it enough myself). I so totally wish I had waited because now i know how special that time is, i feel like a complete idiot for ever having let go of mine. You do the right thing in waiting to lose your virginity. Just make sure that the one you choose, really is 'The One' and not somebody you are just infatuated with.
@xboxboy (5578)
19 Sep 07
with the state of my hormones i will be lucky to know the difference between real love and infatuation, i can barely hold myself back, (especially after a cheeky sherry or two pilfered from grannys 'secret' stash!)
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• Malaysia
19 Sep 07
hay, there's no big deal if you still virgin ar not. it's up to. you know who you are.you will know when is the time you will lose your virginity. but you know what, sometimes boys/girl will lose there virginity when they deeply in love. True Or Not? but one thing for sure is there are others who still virgin even there were in love cause they know how to take care of themself and not giving themself, i mean the body simply. But the big thing is, i'm not sure if virginity is still important before get married. What The Hell Is Going On?
@xboxboy (5578)
19 Sep 07
i think you are right, virginity does not have any importance in marriage anymore. i guess this is just a personal thing for me.
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@tanjam420 (228)
• United States
19 Sep 07
hi, xboxboy, well i think it is great that you are still a virgine anbd that you are proud of it.. you will know when the time is right for you. but it seems like you already have that undercontrol... good job.. i was 15 when i lost my virginity.. and i wish now that i would have waited. actually at the time i was like that is it that is what all the talk is about i was very dissappointed and i felt sick that i went through with it.. i truely wish i would have waited.. and i am very happy to here that you are.. by the way i am 30 now. so i have had alot of years to think about that one.. good job...
@xboxboy (5578)
19 Sep 07
great reply, thanks for that. i will make sure that i do not rush in.
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@liji0989 (232)
• China
19 Sep 07
wow,i have no idea about that,i don't care
@xboxboy (5578)
19 Sep 07
excellent point that i had not anticipated! cheers for that!
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@meaculpa (339)
• Philippines
19 Sep 07
It's alright to be a virgin at 16. There is no problem about that. Your values, education, beliefs pushed you to be firm in making decisions. Whatever your plans, goals, you are still the one to choose. As for me, being raised up as a devout catholic in the philippines, I am proud to say that I have followed the rules, everything's legal (in terms of marriage), and the results are indeed blessings from the Lord! The Good Lord Knows that we must not be put astray that's why He has these rules to be followed and a good, peaceful life are the results of being an obedient soldier. Go forth brave soldier!
@xboxboy (5578)
19 Sep 07
i will, with my bayonet firmly sheathed!
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@Pose123 (21667)
• Canada
18 Sep 07
Hi xboxboy, It's good to see that you are happy with being a virgin. It doesn't matter what others think. Some of your friends who boast may also be virgins but afraid to admit it, because they are afraid of being laughed at. I was still a virgin at 16, but probably wouldn't have admitted it either. Blessings.
@xboxboy (5578)
19 Sep 07
i don't see any reason to act the big man. maybe some sexy siren will find that quality attractive. has anyone got Kiera knightly's phone number?
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18 Sep 07
i was 19 mate and it was really crap its only good when you truly love someone then it takes a whole new concept!!!!!!!!!!!
@xboxboy (5578)
19 Sep 07
i think if you love someone it must make it more intense!
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