When do you quit on love!?

@nurhoney (1123)
Philippines
September 19, 2007 9:14am CST
I have this guy friend who never quits on this ex-girlfriend of his, that he really loves. The girl dumped him coz of a little misunderstanding. He tried to not think about her and talk to her just for him to forget about her. The girl had dumped him 3-times already before and now he still wants to go back to her again. For me, its like the girl doesnt feel anything for him anymore. I just dont know why he couldnt work it out with her and why he cant just quit on "his" love, close his heart for her and open his heart for other women who might feel the same way for him.
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11 responses
@dovey89 (74)
• United States
24 Sep 07
who is the girl? and who is the guy sis? do i know them? for some reason, this discussion of yours made me so anxious that i can't stop thinking if this situation belongs to my boyfriend.... should i be bothered?
@nurhoney (1123)
• Philippines
26 Sep 07
hi sis...the girl and the guy, you dont know them and its not about your bf...dont be bothered about it...ok.
• Philippines
23 Sep 07
Hi there, what's been up to lately buddy? Well its a proof that Love is such a mysterious thing indeed. It's really easy to say to that guy to find another girl that he deserves coz he don't deserves her ex who dumped him before and dont like to come back to him anymore. But hey, come to think on what your friend willing to do for his feelings for her ex. I understand what your friend really feels for his ex, as i've experienced that before that i was so crazy about my ex before and i love her so much and i loved her more than my life. I can't afford of loosing her that time and i was just like going crazy thinking that she might dont want to come back to me anymore and she never loved me. And yeah, i was right! So then, i just tried to moved on and until now, i still cant forget everything about her but the love that i had for her before was gone now. So i can say that i am still in the process of moving on. Hope that your friend can move on soon. Have a nice day ahead and happy posting and earning here in myLot. Godspeed, Kiko
@nurhoney (1123)
• Philippines
26 Sep 07
wow...thanks for sharing.
@wisedragon (2331)
• Philippines
20 Sep 07
In this case I think it's time to move on. There are lots of women out there so why is he being a martyr for this one girl? Sometimes a girl will only appreciate you when you're gone.
@nurhoney (1123)
• Philippines
26 Sep 07
that's right...some people would see how important a person is when they are gone....thanks for sharing.
@ashraf193 (102)
• United Arab Emirates
20 Sep 07
seems to be selfish but i guess he do love his ex gf too and he loves you too
@nurhoney (1123)
• Philippines
26 Sep 07
again, i would like to say, he is just my friend...hehehe
@izathewzia (5142)
• Philippines
20 Sep 07
That's love! It is unconditional. But if I were your guy friend, I will quit the first time that girl dumped me. But I and your guy friend are two different people. It really depends on one's perception about love. Maybe love for him is keep holding on until the last drop of his blood. For me, if it will not work out for the first time, then I'll look for another one. First is also the last time.
@nurhoney (1123)
• Philippines
26 Sep 07
thanks for sharing.
• Malaysia
20 Sep 07
This guy was like me before. What I do is I find another place which totally strange to me. i also delete all the contact no, emails and all her friend. Daily keep praying to God to help me to forget her. And now God give me Another girl and i'm really happy with her.
@nurhoney (1123)
• Philippines
26 Sep 07
its a good thing you moved on with it...thanks for sharing.
• Philippines
20 Sep 07
maybe she has the major qualities of a perfect woman...
@nurhoney (1123)
• Philippines
22 Sep 07
i dont know about that...thanks for sharing.
• Philippines
20 Sep 07
Hi sis! I think your friend really loves the girl. Time will come when your friend feels that he is already tired of being hurt then he might give himself a chance to move on. He may never quit loving her but atleast accept the things that he needs to let go of her. I admire your friend, somehow he reminds me of myself.
@nurhoney (1123)
• Philippines
22 Sep 07
hi sis...i do understand how you feel about loving a person...its quite hard sometimes but have to be strong for yourself...thanks for sharing...miz yah!
@diillu (5130)
19 Sep 07
I think you need to talk to this guy seriously. Tell him about what you think about they way he is acting with his ex-gf and tell him the way you feel for him. He might be thinking that she's the only one who truly loves him. If you tell him how you feel for him then things might be changed. He might have a different perspective. But this is just an opinion.Hope you will think about it.
@nurhoney (1123)
• Philippines
19 Sep 07
you have me misunderstood...this guy is just my guy friend, i care for him just as friends but i dont have any greater feelings for him...iam just simply talking about how he is acting like that for this girl....thanks for sharing.
@love_all (309)
• India
19 Sep 07
is this his first love which he can't forget? if it is so. he may require some time and your affection and care to do so. never try unfair means. try to be affectionate and caring. he surely will understand you one day.
@nurhoney (1123)
• Philippines
19 Sep 07
she is not his first love but i guess this girl was the only person who really "hit him hard in his heart".
@hassanah (387)
• Malaysia
19 Sep 07
I think he really love her ex-girl.Pity to him.
@nurhoney (1123)
• Philippines
19 Sep 07
i guess so.