When do you quit on love!?
September 19, 2007 9:14am CST
I have this guy friend who never quits on this ex-girlfriend of his, that he really loves. The girl dumped him coz of a little misunderstanding. He tried to not think about her and talk to her just for him to forget about her. The girl had dumped him 3-times already before and now he still wants to go back to her again. For me, its like the girl doesnt feel anything for him anymore. I just dont know why he couldnt work it out with her and why he cant just quit on "his" love, close his heart for her and open his heart for other women who might feel the same way for him.
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23 Sep 07
Hi there, what's been up to lately buddy? Well its a proof that Love is such a mysterious thing indeed. It's really easy to say to that guy to find another girl that he deserves coz he don't deserves her ex who dumped him before and dont like to come back to him anymore. But hey, come to think on what your friend willing to do for his feelings for her ex. I understand what your friend really feels for his ex, as i've experienced that before that i was so crazy about my ex before and i love her so much and i loved her more than my life. I can't afford of loosing her that time and i was just like going crazy thinking that she might dont want to come back to me anymore and she never loved me. And yeah, i was right! So then, i just tried to moved on and until now, i still cant forget everything about her but the love that i had for her before was gone now. So i can say that i am still in the process of moving on. Hope that your friend can move on soon. Have a nice day ahead and happy posting and earning here in myLot. Godspeed, Kiko
20 Sep 07
That's love! It is unconditional. But if I were your guy friend, I will quit the first time that girl dumped me. But I and your guy friend are two different people. It really depends on one's perception about love. Maybe love for him is keep holding on until the last drop of his blood. For me, if it will not work out for the first time, then I'll look for another one. First is also the last time.
20 Sep 07
This guy was like me before. What I do is I find another place which totally strange to me. i also delete all the contact no, emails and all her friend. Daily keep praying to God to help me to forget her. And now God give me Another girl and i'm really happy with her.
20 Sep 07
Hi sis! I think your friend really loves the girl. Time will come when your friend feels that he is already tired of being hurt then he might give himself a chance to move on. He may never quit loving her but atleast accept the things that he needs to let go of her. I admire your friend, somehow he reminds me of myself.
19 Sep 07
I think you need to talk to this guy seriously. Tell him about what you think about they way he is acting with his ex-gf and tell him the way you feel for him. He might be thinking that she's the only one who truly loves him. If you tell him how you feel for him then things might be changed. He might have a different perspective. But this is just an opinion.Hope you will think about it.