Romance

United States
September 19, 2007 11:51am CST
Since the birth of our last child my husband and I have gotten out of touch with romance. One of the things is we are so tired and we both work different hours so we don't even see eachother much anymore. I would like to get some input on how with a busy routine and two young children in the house can we get romance back inline?
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@saunty (604)
• India
19 Sep 07
Romance is something which comes from inside , you cant impose it upon someone , nor even upon you...you should better try to get some free lesure time when you can think freely feel the beauty of nature and feel what u need in real rather than these worldly possesions....keep smiling bbye
• United States
19 Sep 07
Romance is inside, it has just been really tired lately. Its not something that I am trying to impose on anyone, I'm just wondering how couples in the same situation as mine work romance back into a very hectic life....
@peaceful (3286)
• United States
19 Sep 07
As a Romantic myself, it gives me shudders whenever I see my married friends go through difficulties, I don't have direct advice about this but maybe you'll find some over at Families.com: http://marriage.families.com/blog/tips-for-finding-more-alone-time I wish you and yours the very best! :) Have an excellent day! :)
• United States
19 Sep 07
Oh where not having difficulties, we have a wonderfull relationship and love to spend time with eachother its just with a 5 and 8 year old and he works days I work nights, I guesse what I'm looking for is some ideas those little romantic jesters. Its been a long time and my brain is so tired I just guesse that romantic jesters are on the back part of my brain the part that off most of the time.
• United States
19 Sep 07
Sorry to hear about this dizzykitty. I understand it must be very frustrating. Could one of the grandparents watch the kids one evening perhaps? If they could then maybe you and your husband could go out to dinner and a a movie. Maybe they could even keep the kids for a weekend. Im sure they wouldnt mind since they are grandparents. =) Good luck, i hope it all works out for you.