How many crush did you have since your childhood until now?
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
19 Sep 07
Wow, you can count the number of crushes you've had??? *giggles* I'll be 27 on Friday, and I've had more crushes than I can count. Some of them actually turned into real relationships, and other one's didn't. Some of them have even been since I've been married when I knew they couldn't really turn into anything (before I get flamed, my husband knows I still get crushes.) =P I think it's perfectly normal to have crushes, and it's something that happens to everyone.
19 Sep 07
i admit, i had loads of crushes... can't even count them... but all those are not serious... i had this crush.... (initials HN) and he is my crush for like 4 yrs now... he goes to my old school and we're like close friends... i just can't admit it to him that i like him that much coz i'm juz so afraid to tell him and afraid to lose our friendship. i talk to him but then he doesn't even know that i have a big crush on him.. do you, people think that i'm so immature of not telling him?? wat do you think?? do you think i should juz keep it inside me, coz am happy if i talk to him and am contented for that or i'll just go to him and say i like you.... am juz so confuse and i don't like this feeling no more....
24 Sep 07
Thanks for your comment. I don't think you are immature just because you don't confess your feeling to him. I, myself never confess to any guys that I like. I know how afraid it feels if we get rejected. But I already content by just being able to see him everyday. I am an amateur in this confessing thing, so I dare not to give you any advices. But you shouldn't dislike that feeling, because after it is gone you will miss it. Maybe you should follow your instinct. We, women are known for our good instinct, right? And just do what make you happier cause we life only once.