can revenge be a consideration????
September 20, 2007 10:32pm CST
my friend asked me if whether revenge can be a consideration.. i mean, revenge is morally wrong... but here's her situation... her boyfriend left her for another woman... though the "other" woman does not really like her boyfriend... despite of what my friends bf (now ex hehe, my friend never thought of seeking a revenge, she just let him be and never bothered him.... but now, the guy is starting to purposely trying to piss her off (could be that the guy felt ashamed that the woman he chose did not take him).. my friend didn't bother him anymore but it seems like the guy is the one provoking her to do something....
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21 Sep 07
Hello dyenitals, I think revenge shouldn't be a consideration on her part. That fact that the guy is with a girl who doesn't love him is enough to pay for what he did to your friend. Because I think sooner or later that girl's going to break his heart too just like he did to your friend. I suggest he forget the guy, move on with her life. Just ignore the guy and what he's doing soon he'll get tired of it. :-)
28 Sep 07
my friend is just having a hard time coz people think that she's the "bad one" by not forgiving her ex... her ex is known as an "innocent, does not know anything type of guy" in school... and her ex is getting the sympathy of the people by making himself look soooo hurt on their situation and telling everybody that it's all his fault...
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21 Sep 07
I guess revenge could be a consideration for some people. But i think its wrong. Even if you get revenge or someone where does that lead you? Then they might do something else to get back to you. And then its a never ending cycle. Its better just to let it go. As some people put it "turn the other cheek." Your probably right. His self esteem probably suffered from the other woman not wanting him. Serves him right though. Thats what he gets for being unfaithful. Maybe if she just ignores him it will blow over. Just make sure she doesnt let him know that its getting to her. This guy seems very childish. He'll get over it eventually.
28 Sep 07
thanks for that... i did told her to just ignore him (w/c she also does) but the guy is starting to make stories about her and her ex is quite good in getting the sympathy of other people (since he has quite a clean reputation in the eyes of all people).. good thing is that she remains that "DON'T REALLY CARE" aura to her ex and his ex's friends... thank you, thank you!!!! i'll surely let her read your comment...=)
21 Sep 07
hahaha i dont deny that im really unto a revenge thing. i really love to get even and cant rest unless ive done it right...but somethings giving them a dose of their own medicine in a subtle way can also be good..... hehehe complicated eh?