Does depression run in families?

United States
September 23, 2007 4:49pm CST
My sister has tried to kill herself twice, and is now okay and on meds for manic depression. My young daughter acts a lot like my sister did at her age, with mood swings and such. Do you think depression runs in families?
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@wotfpatty (2065)
• United States
23 Sep 07
As others have said, depression and other mental illnesses do run in families. My father was depressive and took anti depressants for many years. My mother and father were both very anxious. Now, I am very anxious, my sisters are both on antidepressants and anxiety meds, my brother is on anxiety meds, and my sister's 9 year old was diagnosed with an anxiety disorder. My older nephew is on anti depressants. It unfortunately seems to be passed down although not every member of a family will be affected by it. I think it would be wise to have your daughter talk to someone or for you to talk to someone about the mood swings because, although it could just be hormones, you don't want her to do anything that may harm her if she, too, has the same illness as your sister. It stinks but I am watching my own kids very closely for signs of both depression and anxiety. Luckily, my husband's side had none that I know of so they have a chance to avoid the anxiety I have and the depression everyone in my family has. Good luck.
@megs85 (3142)
• Australia
24 Sep 07
A good place to start would be at your family's gp. Depending on the severity of your daughters behaviour, you could also try contacting a mental health team through alocal hospital. I'm not sure where you're from, but her e in Australia we have help line's which you can call to get some general advice, and some contacts to call, and most of the lines are great supports for fmily members of people with mental illnesses. Hope this helps a little.
• United States
24 Sep 07
Thank you for your heartfelt response. I am not sure what type of doctor to talk with, I have a general distrust of doctors except for emergencies. But I know medication has helped my sister, although it has messed her up a few times.
@wotfpatty (2065)
• United States
24 Sep 07
As someone already said, her doctor to your own GP should be a decent place to start. They will know whether the behavior is of concern or just a phase type thing. If they feel it should be looked into, they will send you and your daughter to a mental health professional. It all sounds awful but, with any family history of things, it's always better to be safe and check things out that just "feel" wrong, you know? Good luck to you and your daughter!
@Jshean20 (14349)
• Canada
23 Sep 07
I honestly think that genetics can play a role in depression. My dads brother has it, I have it and now my 4 year old nephew is showing the signs of having depression and anxiety problems as well.
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• United States
24 Sep 07
I hope your nephew does not end up having it seriously. Thank you for your comment.
@sherrir101 (3670)
• Malinta, Ohio
23 Sep 07
Yes. Having a close relative who has suffered from a depressive disorder, especially Bipolar Disorder, increases the likelihood of developing depression.
• United States
24 Sep 07
I will have to keep a watchful eye on her. Thank you so much for your comment.
@gwendovere (1279)
• United States
24 Sep 07
Yes -- and so does manic depression (a.k.a. bipolar disorder). If your daughter acts depressed -- with mood swings, etc. -- you probably should get her into counseling. If she threatens to kill herself, or to hurt herself, you should always take it seriously. You should try to remain calm & rational, but you need to get her help.
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• United States
24 Sep 07
P.S. I'm bipolar too & have studied it a bit to heal myself.
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@kitty1234 (1476)
• United States
23 Sep 07
Depression is known to run in families. There is the same chemical imbalance in the genes, some do not show signs of depression, some do! Hopefully your daughter is just doing her own thing and not acting like your sister did.
• United States
23 Sep 07
I hope she is, she goes from crying fits to giggling within seconds. Some days are better that others. maybe its just hormones.
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• United States
23 Sep 07
yes, depression can run in the family, just like any other illness.
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• United States
23 Sep 07
I was hoping the answer would be no.
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
24 Sep 07
i think so. it is somehow depending on genes. And not all the times that it runs in family. Its not that if a person is suferring from depression, any of its family member must be suffering also.
• United States
24 Sep 07
I think some of it is Bio- Chemical, some think you inhert, some times it's what happens in your life we all have a different level of coping with adversity, but if it is Bio-chemical, we need to investigate if medication would help? For some people excercise and exposure to sun light works. People in Northern regions suffer from lack of sunlight. But it could be helped with medication, other need both consuling and medication. Check with a Pysc. to see what is happening.
• United States
24 Sep 07
I think depression runs in families, as all conditions of this kind is passed through, it may not be every generation, but some where down the line it will show up again. If your daughter is showing signs I think it is a good idea to seek help now before it gets really bad.
@moxalot (100)
• United States
26 Sep 07
Yes, depression runs in families. It runs in my family. My Grandfather, one of my aunts, and me that I know of in my generation have it. I watch my wee ones carefully. I'm pretty sure it runs in my husband's family too. Unfortunately, his family's motto is oh he'll get over it.... Best Wishes
@nobbsy123 (851)
• Australia
26 Sep 07
It runs in my family too. I don't however think it is hereditary at all. my mum suffers depression, but over different life challenges to mine. So the depressions in the family cannot be linked in my view anyway.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
12 Oct 10
Well, sometimes its unavoidable that we feel depressed for the day..but for the health its not a good side, i believe in Meditation which will balance our mind and helps to be normal at situations.