how did you know he was the right one??

@TTucker3 (147)
United States
September 24, 2007 11:57am CST
I am nite sure I can even answer this question, I just knew, I knew that when I met my husband I would be with him for the rest of my life, from my hand fitting so well in his, to the interests we shared, to the way we just came together..I knew God made him just fro me! he came all the way to indiana to meet me, was there fro three days and then I knew I had to com ehome with him..that was eight years ago, and I cant say I have never regreted it, because there have been some times i just wanted to strangle him..LOL but he is my soulmate!
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@Buggheart (446)
• United States
25 Sep 07
After a few weeks I just knew as everything felt so perfect. He was everything I needed him to be and more. He was so funny, personable, thoughtful, polite, and easy to talk with. We share similar interests and like the same music and TV shows. He never walked ahead of me when we were out but stuck with me even if I was moving slow. He's really friendly and everyone likes him. He's very real and honest too. I think he is my soulmate. He makes me feel like a princess. And it didn't hurt that he was soooo sexy LOL! Beautiful blue eyes that just melted my heart every time I looked into them and a perfect smile that comes so easily and makes my tummy tickle. And whenever he touched my arm or back or any part of me it was like fireworks going off in my head and I could hardly think.
• China
25 Sep 07
yeah !if you fall in love with him or her at the first sight,yes,he or she may be your ......
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@TTucker3 (147)
• United States
25 Sep 07
MIne was his voice, his voice always got me..that deep sexy voice, that every woman hjust dreams of, when we first started talking we talked on the phone long distance and the first night was three hours, the second night was five hours and the third was three again, the fourth he cam and met me in Inidana! Anyhow I would just lay there and listen to his voice as we talked to all hours of the night, and his voice is still exactly the same gives me shivers..lol
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• United States
25 Sep 07
Oh yeah, the voice too! Deep and sexy. Just nearly everything about him is just beautiful. There's the way he treats me and the way he's so perfect for me, but to even just think of his features and physical attributes drives me nuts too. Beautiful dark hair, blue eyes with a hint of grey in them like a cloudy day, soft beard, perfect skin, strong warm hands. Sigh..... I read a book recently where one of the characters was talking about her boyfriend and how perfect he was and she described his laugh as windchimes and I was like YES! His laugh is like windchimes or sweet music and I love to hear it. He's been a bit down lately so I don't hear the laugh very often these days and I miss it so much.
• United States
24 Sep 07
My husband & I got to be friends before anything else. I didn't have any intentions to go further than that cause I'd been in an very abusive relationship that ended about a year before I met my husband, so I wasn't looking for anyone or anything like that. We became best friends and everybody thought we were a couple when we were just hanging out. Things started to change between us and before we knew it we were planning our wedding and then expecting our daughter. I think what opened my eyes to him being the one was when our then 2 year old daughter (mine from a previous relationship) telling him that she loved him. I didn't know he was the right one, she chose him for me...LOL!! We never really thought about it until we became a couple but we grew up so close together, our families knew all the same people plus grew up together, and we shared so many things in common than we realized. Meeting his family for the first time was so scary but then after the initial shock, it was like being at home with my family. No regrets here either..LOL!!
@TTucker3 (147)
• United States
24 Sep 07
well thats is cool! My husband and I started out late, so we had no kids, I was 28 when our daughter was born, when we got together, I had been in an abusive relationship also, but for some reason I knew when I heard his voice I felt safe!! I wish I could say i have always gotten a long with his family, his mom and I had a very rough start, but my family has always accepted him! My sister had been friends with him for quite a few years, and she tried to set us up at their wedding, and I was only sixteen, and not ready for him yet, God knew what he was doing in our lives, he looked doewn on us and knew when the right time was for us to get together!
• United States
25 Sep 07
Oh, I forgot to add that while we were just friends & hanging out, his dad & uncles had crushes on me!! No one told me anything until after the fact and we were married!! I always wondered why my cousin would start to giggle when I came around cause they all worked together and he knew but never said anything either. When I first heard about it, I was so grossed out. Now, my husband & I laugh about it..LOL
• United States
25 Sep 07
You don't know unless you get married to him/her. If she/he's till your bf/gf...there's still a chance that she/he's not the one. When you get married to this person, there you can say..."I found my soulmate for life". hmnn.... http://www.socyberty.com/Advice/lessons-in-Life.43057
@TTucker3 (147)
• United States
26 Sep 07
I heard something I thought was good, so many people say they will stay together for better or worse, but then when the worse happens they are gone... the thing to keep in your mind we will stay together for GOOD!
@errielle (442)
• Philippines
25 Sep 07
i'm still single at 33. So reading all your responses, i feel inspired and positive that I'd meet the right person someday. i was into some relationships before but i felt suffocated or always doubtful. so it was better that those kinds of relationships ended. For me you'll never know if he's the one or not until you open yourself to the posibility that he's/ she's the one. It has to be worked out. It can't be something like magic or what they call "love-at-first-sight". it must be something that both are working about.
@TTucker3 (147)
• United States
25 Sep 07
I didnt meet my husband until I was 24, and we didnt get married until I was 28, then we had our first baby right after we got married..It'll come, and when it does you will know beyond a shadow of a doubt that he si the right one! Give yourself time, and get to know each other, find out the good and the bad about each other!
• United States
25 Sep 07
The way my husband and I met was kind of funny. The first time we met was when I was in 8th grade. He was my step brother's best friend, therefore, I hated him. He did come and take my little brother to do things with him though, which was pretty neat. After my mom and her husband split up, I did not see him until the end of 9th grade, when a mutual friend tried to set us up, but he was seeing someone else. Then, on the first day of High School, he parked beside me before school. We were both seeing other people, and both were dumped on the same day. My best friend finally asked him after a month of him flirting with me if he was going to ask me out or what, and he did. The first time I thought he may be the one was on my 16th birthday (I know, we were really young) he had to have surgery on his knee. I was really bummed that we would not get to spend my birthday together. I was having dinner with my mom and brother when someone knocked on the door. It was his dad. His dad was holding a dozen red roses, and when he moved the roses, I could see Josh coming up the porch on crutches, an hour after leaving the hospital. I was blown away. About a year later was the true test of whether or not he was the one. Right before our Junior year, I found out that I was pregnant. After going through my own mess of emotions, I went to his house to tell him. I left the door wide open for him to walk out, telling him that I did not expect anything from him and that he was free to say the word and he would not hear anything from me. He was really quiet for a minute, then told me that no matter what, he was not going anywhere. That was it for me. What other 17 year old boy would really stand up, after being given an out, and take responsibility for me and a baby? They are few and far between. And people say that high school sweethearts never last in long relationships...ha! Here we are almost 10 years later and just as happy as before. We were made for each other, no doubt about it.
@TTucker3 (147)
• United States
25 Sep 07
OH WOW! noe that is an awesoem story..when i was a little over sixteen, I was mixed up with an older guy, who was just gorgeous, and I did love him! He was just dreamy..if you know what I mean..he could sing and everything..lol but anyhow I thought I was pregnant, and he was also willing to stick with me, but when it was all over and we found out I wasnt he told me that it was best that we didnt see each other again, which was the best for me and for him..he told me to find him again at eighteen..come to find out right after I had left town he had went back to my families house looking for me..sad but in a way I knew things happened the way they did, I now hav ethe best man in the world, but we all sya that don't we!
@mamasan34 (6521)
• United States
25 Sep 07
I have been on a long journey with the man I am with now. We started this 17 years ago. We married, had a child, divorced and remarried others and divorced. Now we are re-married. I always knew that deep down we were meant to be together. I don't know how, you just know. When we hold hands, it's right, when we snuggle we fit together. There are so many things that tell me this is the right man for me. I just know he is my soul mate!
@TTucker3 (147)
• United States
25 Sep 07
Wow congats on the long years there..I am a true believer that sometimes in lif eyou have to go through things to know if he is the right one or not, and to make mistakes..I think it builds up what your going to be in store for! My husband and I had the chance to get together 8 years before we did, and at that time I was sixteen, so I said no hes was wierd..there was other stuff out there fro us, more we had to learn! Once again congrats!
@reinydawn (11649)
• United States
25 Sep 07
My husband and I knew pretty much from day one also. We just knew we were right for each other. No clue how or why we knew, we just did.
@TTucker3 (147)
• United States
25 Sep 07
I think thats what happened to me, but my husband had just been in a relationship thought he wa sin love, and asked the girl to marry her and then right after he did it she up and left him said he was too needy I think the word is, she was always telling him he was slow also, so he was hurt pretty bad, than when we got together, he did the same hting to me, he owuld only get so close, but I know he loved me and wanted to be with me he was just so afraid to admit it from all of his hurt in the past. But I knew!
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• Hong Kong
25 Sep 07
Maybe i am not sure he was the right one in my mind.But many times i can fell happily and secure with he together.And with he of all time very much.If havn't he in my life,i feel one day correspond one year or even more.and have he,i feel one day is fleeting...Maybe I like he and he was the right one in my mind...
@TTucker3 (147)
• United States
25 Sep 07
How long have you two been together??
@sherrir101 (3670)
• United States
25 Sep 07
I feel the smae way about Bruce. I just knew. We been together just shy of 4 years. At times it can be maddening, but I wouldn't be anywhere else.
@TTucker3 (147)
• United States
25 Sep 07
I sure do know what you mean, have you ever heard soemone say I love him so much I hate him, That's the way it can be sometimes very very maddening!! but I could never live my life without him..he is my everything, and he always will be..if anything ever happened to him, I could never doi it all over again, and I know my life wqould be a complete and total wreck!!
@jodenton (222)
25 Sep 07
Like you, i just knew. I tried not to be with him for two years as I was confused and the situation was sticky to say the least but in the end love won out!
@jhanna (335)
• Philippines
25 Sep 07
Me too! I just knew that this man would be my husband. I just knew it. Like you, I can't really explain it why. The first time I saw him, there was a kind of feeling that dictates me something like .. saying he is the one for me. Love really is a magic in itself. It finds me when I least expect it. He just came into my life in the right time and place. I thank God for my husband, for letting him come into my life. My husband is my friend, lover and soul mate. I never thought I could love this way until I met him.