how did you know he was the right one??

After a few weeks I just knew as everything felt so perfect. He was everything I needed him to be and more. He was so funny, personable, thoughtful, polite, and easy to talk with. We share similar interests and like the same music and TV shows. He never walked ahead of me when we were out but stuck with me even if I was moving slow. He's really friendly and everyone likes him. He's very real and honest too. I think he is my soulmate. He makes me feel like a princess. And it didn't hurt that he was soooo sexy LOL! Beautiful blue eyes that just melted my heart every time I looked into them and a perfect smile that comes so easily and makes my tummy tickle. And whenever he touched my arm or back or any part of me it was like fireworks going off in my head and I could hardly think.

My husband & I got to be friends before anything else. I didn't have any intentions to go further than that cause I'd been in an very abusive relationship that ended about a year before I met my husband, so I wasn't looking for anyone or anything like that. We became best friends and everybody thought we were a couple when we were just hanging out. Things started to change between us and before we knew it we were planning our wedding and then expecting our daughter. I think what opened my eyes to him being the one was when our then 2 year old daughter (mine from a previous relationship) telling him that she loved him. I didn't know he was the right one, she chose him for me...LOL!! We never really thought about it until we became a couple but we grew up so close together, our families knew all the same people plus grew up together, and we shared so many things in common than we realized. Meeting his family for the first time was so scary but then after the initial shock, it was like being at home with my family. No regrets here either..LOL!!

I have been on a long journey with the man I am with now. We started this 17 years ago. We married, had a child, divorced and remarried others and divorced. Now we are re-married. I always knew that deep down we were meant to be together. I don't know how, you just know. When we hold hands, it's right, when we snuggle we fit together. There are so many things that tell me this is the right man for me. I just know he is my soul mate!

You don't know unless you get married to him/her. If she/he's till your bf/gf...there's still a chance that she/he's not the one. When you get married to this person, there you can say..."I found my soulmate for life". hmnn.... http://www.socyberty.com/Advice/lessons-in-Life.43057

i'm still single at 33. So reading all your responses, i feel inspired and positive that I'd meet the right person someday. i was into some relationships before but i felt suffocated or always doubtful. so it was better that those kinds of relationships ended. For me you'll never know if he's the one or not until you open yourself to the posibility that he's/ she's the one. It has to be worked out. It can't be something like magic or what they call "love-at-first-sight". it must be something that both are working about.

The way my husband and I met was kind of funny. The first time we met was when I was in 8th grade. He was my step brother's best friend, therefore, I hated him. He did come and take my little brother to do things with him though, which was pretty neat. After my mom and her husband split up, I did not see him until the end of 9th grade, when a mutual friend tried to set us up, but he was seeing someone else. Then, on the first day of High School, he parked beside me before school. We were both seeing other people, and both were dumped on the same day. My best friend finally asked him after a month of him flirting with me if he was going to ask me out or what, and he did. The first time I thought he may be the one was on my 16th birthday (I know, we were really young) he had to have surgery on his knee. I was really bummed that we would not get to spend my birthday together. I was having dinner with my mom and brother when someone knocked on the door. It was his dad. His dad was holding a dozen red roses, and when he moved the roses, I could see Josh coming up the porch on crutches, an hour after leaving the hospital. I was blown away. About a year later was the true test of whether or not he was the one. Right before our Junior year, I found out that I was pregnant. After going through my own mess of emotions, I went to his house to tell him. I left the door wide open for him to walk out, telling him that I did not expect anything from him and that he was free to say the word and he would not hear anything from me. He was really quiet for a minute, then told me that no matter what, he was not going anywhere. That was it for me. What other 17 year old boy would really stand up, after being given an out, and take responsibility for me and a baby? They are few and far between. And people say that high school sweethearts never last in long relationships...ha! Here we are almost 10 years later and just as happy as before. We were made for each other, no doubt about it.

My husband and I knew pretty much from day one also. We just knew we were right for each other. No clue how or why we knew, we just did.

I feel the smae way about Bruce. I just knew. We been together just shy of 4 years. At times it can be maddening, but I wouldn't be anywhere else.

Like you, i just knew. I tried not to be with him for two years as I was confused and the situation was sticky to say the least but in the end love won out!

Me too! I just knew that this man would be my husband. I just knew it. Like you, I can't really explain it why. The first time I saw him, there was a kind of feeling that dictates me something like .. saying he is the one for me. Love really is a magic in itself. It finds me when I least expect it. He just came into my life in the right time and place. I thank God for my husband, for letting him come into my life. My husband is my friend, lover and soul mate. I never thought I could love this way until I met him.

Maybe i am not sure he was the right one in my mind.But many times i can fell happily and secure with he together.And with he of all time very much.If havn't he in my life,i feel one day correspond one year or even more.and have he,i feel one day is fleeting...Maybe I like he and he was the right one in my mind...