is love blind? i wish some times it were deaf too

India
September 26, 2007 6:21am CST
do u think love is blind? dont u wish sometimes that it were deaf too?
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@stella1989 (2274)
• India
27 Sep 07
Actually LOVE is not blind. Its just that lovers don't care for other things!! But I hate to see such people who are so in love with each other that they don't care about anything else!! They don't even care about their own family who love them too!! Over all one should not get selfish any ways!! That is why if you ask me ..I hate to get blind in love but again sometiems its good to let your self flow in the freedom of this life!! And if the topic is about being deaf too..! Then yes if I love a person then the first thing it means that I totaly trust him. In my dictionary trust comes just after love!! If you can't trust some one how can you love him?? :)
• India
27 Sep 07
dont u think u r contradicting urself in that? u say trust comes just after love. then u say if can't trust someone how can you love him? so that way trust comes before love. dont u think so?
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• India
28 Sep 07
Yes actually I was thinking of putting trust "before" love but ....I just got reminded that..LOVe is above all this..!! NOthing is as great as love..!! So I had no other option than putting "trust" at the second place!! :)
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@sirraps (89)
• Philippines
24 Jan 08
The term "Love is blind" is just a figure of speech which means you can love somebody who they are and what they are. Remember that "The virtue of Love is not finding the perfect person but Loving the imperfect person perfectly"
@siZidni (1860)
• Indonesia
25 Jan 08
"The virtue of love is not finding the perfect person but loving the imperfect person perfectly" i don't quite agree with this.. by saying that loving imperfect person, it's shown that you believe there's nothing that is perfect. Then how could you believe that we could love someone in "perfect" manner?
@anuj291 (575)
• India
27 Sep 07
yes love is blind,,cuz its the heart of the person u fall in love with,,most of the times and not the looks,,and i dont really know what u mean by deaf too,,cuz i guess if both the ppl have a good understandin between each other,,then thr is nothin to worry about,,cuz thr will be no misunderstandin and all thnx and tc
• India
4 Oct 07
think again what i asked?
@royanne (372)
• Philippines
27 Sep 07
i don't know.. it's really just a saying though that love is blind... but that i sometimes believe because i think when you get attracted to someone it is usually their physical appearance that you look at... but when you start to love them you start to accept them on what they truly is... even though they are not good in many things or even maybe if they aren't even close to that ideal person you've been dreaming about.. right? you can use the statement "Love is blind" in many other ways... or maybe even if the person you love has physical disabilities you sill love them for who they are and who they aren't.. right? so it could be your just blind to these kinds of things because you accept them for who they really are... (n_n) and also, why do you wish that love could be deaf too? when were in love we tend to hear things even though hey aren't said in words... and als we are very sensitive tpo many kinds of things that surrounds us... (n_n) so love couldn't really be deaf...
• India
4 Oct 07
think hard why i said that love should be deaf?
@royanne (372)
• Philippines
27 Sep 07
i don't know.. it's really just a saying though that love is blind... but that i sometimes believe because i think when you get attracted to someone it is usually their physical appearance that you look at... but when you start to love them you start to accept them on what they truly is... even though they are not good in many things or even maybe if they aren't even close to that ideal person you've been dreaming about.. right? you can use the statement "Love is blind" in many other ways... or maybe even if the person you love has physical disabilities you sill love them for who they are and who they aren't.. right? so it could be your just blind to these kinds of things because you accept them for who they really are... (n_n)
• India
4 Oct 07
so do u believe it or not?
@hanreq (1445)
• Philippines
26 Sep 07
yeah!!and i believe it..my gf is so beautiful but i'm not a handsome,tall and dark,.she accept me if who a real me..i'm thankful for god that she gave me.,i really love her.,do you understand that?!hehe..thanks and take care..:D
• India
26 Sep 07
well i am happy for u and wish you all the happiness for your love life. but what abt the deaf part?
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• India
26 Sep 07
No i dont think so instead when you are in love you feel more hapiness,more freshness,you can take decisions more actively,so you open your eyes widely instead
@siZidni (1860)
• Indonesia
24 Jan 08
Love is never blind. but the man who fall in love has blind his self for the love. do you really wish that love were deaf? it won't be cool you know.. if love is blind, that's kind of good thing. you should not care for other things that interupt your love. but deaf too? your love won't hear anything even your heart beat. i believe it's not cool