What are your talents and/or what do you wish you were talented at?

Switzerland
September 26, 2007 3:43pm CST
I would like to be more talented at public speaking - but it's hopefully something that develops from practice. More usually, I'd like to be more musical. I doubt I'll ever be a concert pianist, but I'm working on playing the guitar and hopefully I'll be reasonably able in the future and may move onto something else. The one thing I doubt I'll be able to change is that I cannot sing - bugger. Also, I'd like to speak far more languages and to a higher level. This is something I could probably do as well, should I simply put the work in - but that seems like a huge degree of effort.
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• New Zealand
27 Sep 07
I'm just like you with the music and the languages. Although I haven't bought a guitar yet... I'd very much like to get one and start learning it! Also I guess it would be nice being able to draw well, I'm thinking specifically anime/manga style drawings.
@derek_a (10874)
28 Sep 07
Go get the guitar and drawing tools - procrastination can be a huge barrier to success... Tomorrow is always tomorrow - we only have now.. You can do it :-)
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@skydancer (2101)
• United States
30 Sep 07
I think my biggest talents lie in any area that requires a combination of artistry and physical skill (athletics - esp. dance) as well visual and performing arts (I think I am a slightly more natural performing artist than I am a visual one). This surprises people because I have pursued pretty much every area of the arts you can imagine at one point or another, in one way or another. But I wish I could compose music more easily... and I wish I had a more natural singing voice. Perhaps the reason I wish I had it is the same reason other people assume I do - because of my interest in the arts! But moreover, I wish I had higher confidence and higher self esteem. Sometimes I freeze at mistakes, criticism, or signs of disapproval and get upset and don't know what to do... worry how many people saw whatever slip-up I made and what they'll think of me. I am not sure if this is a "talent" in the stereotypical sense of the word, but I am too afraid of people thinking the wrong thing about me or getting myself seriously hurt, etc. that I am not quick to take risks unless certain of succeeding. So that is the part of me I'd like to improve the most.
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@derek_a (10874)
28 Sep 07
I would agree that if we are willing to practice, we can become more talented. Being a pianist since childhood, I am amazed at how consistent practice will keep producing more and more skill at this art. It is like there is always something else to learn regardless of how much I think I "should know it all"... As a therapist I often tell clients who suffer from a lack of self-esteem, that practising learning a new skill will bring rewards of greater confidence in themselves. One needs to face those fears of failure and improve skill by working through the mistakes.. :-)
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@darkaeon (465)
• Portugal
26 Oct 07
hi well i think that im very talented at playing football, i play in the portugusese 2nd division but im a good player... and i would like to be talented at acting because i love movies and i certainly would like to be a part of one!!!