Money or Love,which is more important?

@mari123 (1862)
China
September 26, 2007 9:40pm CST
When you are facing such a situation: A man is a kind person who will take care of you every time you meet a terrible situation,turly love you and you love him but he is poor. Another man : a person with a big house and car but doesn't love you but to marry with him is your parent's hope. Then which person do you choose?
3 responses
@youme8 (29)
• Malaysia
27 Sep 07
Better take a person with big house and car and then make love gradually so that I can have all in one. Great love can be fostered accordingly to time and patience.
@aowaow (1517)
• Indonesia
27 Sep 07
but in my experience, rich family lacks of love than so-so family.
@youme8 (29)
• Malaysia
27 Sep 07
poor people does more lack in love, they can't even smile!!!
@aowaow (1517)
• Indonesia
27 Sep 07
They smiles more than rich man. Lovely so-so family's smile is so natural. Rich man's smile contains curiosity and full of tricks. In fact rich man never smile on people who had no intention or needs to him. And in real life, rich guy never smile to many others, and drown inside of his agony of proud and wealth. he only smiles to someone who is precious stone to him.
@biwasaki (1745)
• United States
27 Sep 07
I would choose the person that I love. I think there is a lot of truth to the saying, "Money can't buy happiness". It wouldn't matter how much money I had if I weren't happy and in love with the person that I married. I would much rather love the person that I am with, and work with him to improve our lives together than marry someone just for his money.
• United States
27 Sep 07
I would say Love, because if you don't have money you still have love, but you may have money and have an extra marrital affair, you would not be happy, so many people have divorice bcause of no love. Women are different from men they marry because of love, whereas men marry for selfish reasons.
@aowaow (1517)
• Indonesia
27 Sep 07
Agreed. With love and understanding of your partner, you both can build the wealth together.
@arcidy (5016)
• United States
27 Sep 07
To me money is more important then love because you need money to survive you need money to buy food pay bills live in a house and what such. You can survive without love but it will be pretty hard once you reach a certin age and you realise that you need someone to love. But money is survival and if you want to survive in this world then you need money.
@aowaow (1517)
• Indonesia
27 Sep 07
I think if you are going haunted with that mind, you might be never taste what real love is. what is the meaning of struggle for love life. Two of my friends had this thought since they are 20s, and they kept earning and earning, put the love aside. they said they want to make a huge money empire before married, that's right, they made it, but not a very significant wealth, and they are not engage in any love until now. We asked them why, they even said regret what they said. While some of my friends built the wealth more quickly when they had get married for years.