how to make love successful?

India
September 27, 2007 9:01am CST
how does one go about in making your love successful? should you convince her parents first of your love/ or should you convince her first?
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@stella1989 (2274)
• India
28 Sep 07
Hey its very obvious that you should always convince your partner first rather than convincing her parents!! Imagine if your convincing her parents first and they finally have no problem in marrying there daughter but what will you do if the daughter itself denies to marry you!! what will you do!! SO its better to convince others!! :)
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@diillu (5128)
27 Sep 07
Since it's our partner that we are in love and we need our partner more than their parents. I think it is best if we convince our partner and tell them how much we are in love with. After our partner knows that how much we are in love with then later on we can convince our parents telling them how much we are in love with each-other.
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@anuj291 (575)
• India
27 Sep 07
well its the girl u have to fall in love with and marry if u have too,,and not the family,,so i guess the girl has to agree with u ,,first and also second in this world,,cuz every one makes thr own decision and no thr parents and alll and if u truly love the person i guess she will get to know u and love u sooner or later thnx and tc
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@bizmom (515)
• United States
27 Sep 07
lol well if SHE doesnt know u love her or want to then how u going to know u SHOULD *fight* for her then?? u have to let her know how u feel first - then when she knows and IF She does love u too - then the *fight* for u both ( together) is going to be much stronger! united together :) Im not sure where u are or what ur customs are - so im going by the fact that love is universal and u should let whomever u feel it for know - that doesnt mean its GOING TO BE back to u tho - u have to be prepared for it not to be! ok?? :( sad i know but ... such is life/love If she does then u can go together to tell the parents IF its more than just a fancy - just something after talking with her ( if u havent already) that IS just friends! U know what i mean? if u fancy ( like) her from afar and after talking to her its not what u thought then ur just friends right? so why go to parents at all then right? Again im not sure of ur customs or anything im only going by what could happen in this situation is all GOOD LUCK to u :) XX