Letting go....

nature - sunset
@sampip (99)
Philippines
September 28, 2007 9:05pm CST
there was this girl that i once "loved"... i dont know if she loved me too but all i know is i really loved her gave her my whole "heart". but right now it's all over. we were friends before we had this "very short" relationship and now it's like we don't know each other. i know it's not a healthy way to end a relationship but that's what she thought is best for us. I still wish that we could be friends after what happened. i wish we could be like what we were before... anyway, do you guys have any other ideas on how can you let go of someone who was once so dear to you? any ideas that will help you forget?
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@stvasile (7317)
• Romania
30 Sep 07
I've had some similar experiences recently... In one case we managed to get through by staying friends, but in another, we don't even speak. And it's not like we eould have fought or argued... we just don't speak to each other anymore...
@sampip (99)
• Philippines
1 Oct 07
that's what's happening to us now. i guess it's best that way. *sigh*
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@mikeb270 (54)
• United States
29 Sep 07
You have to ask yourself are you wanting to be her friend again becuase you are hoping it will turn into a relationship again???? Time heels all wounds, thats my best advice sory it couldnt be more.
@sampip (99)
• Philippines
30 Sep 07
thanks. ;-)
@roniroxas (10576)
• Philippines
29 Sep 07
well in this world we will love and get hurt. that would make us learn and to be more aware. i love this song of side a. i hope you like it. We often fool ourselves And say that it's love Only cause when it's gone We end up being lonely So how are we to know That it just isn't so That we just have to let each other go There were many times When we shared precious moments But later realized they were only stolen moments So how are we to know That it just wasn't so That we just had to let each other go If loving you is all that means to me When being happy is all I hope you'd be Then loving you must mean I really have to set you free Each day we meet my love for you Keeps growing stronger But everytime we meet Makes leaving you so much harder So how are we to know That this just wasn't so That we just have to let each other go If loving you is all that means to me When being happy is all I hope you'd be Then loving you must mean I really have to set you free Letting go is not an easy task When smiling feels like I must wear this lonely mask It hurts deep inside And I just cannot hide That there's anguish at the thought That we should have to part If loving you is all that means to me When being happy is all I hope you'd be Then loving you must mean I really have to set you free If loving you is all that means to me When being happy is all I hope you'd be Then loving you must mean I really have to set you free
@sampip (99)
• Philippines
29 Sep 07
nice song. thanks. ;-)
@secretbear (19464)
• Philippines
29 Sep 07
oh gosh. this reminds me of my first ever love. ^__^;; it had hurt terribly when we broke up. but what i did was go out with friends more frequently than before. i had fun more than i did before. i met with new people. i engaged with new interests and hobbies so that there were so many things in my mind and there's no space left for him. ^__^ i avoided thinking of him coz it only made my heartache and it made me cry. ^.^ and then the most important thing, i did my best to forgive and forget him. coz only if i truly forgive him can i forget what hurt he caused me. and i think i succeeded in that. ^__^
@sampip (99)
• Philippines
29 Sep 07
yup so hard... thanks for the insights. ;-)
@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
29 Sep 07
Hi sampip, this is so sadz.. The only way is like wat she is doing to u.. So that once no contacts with each other, forgetting each other will be faster and easier.. If u really love her, respect her.. let her go and she be happier..
@sampip (99)
• Philippines
29 Sep 07
that's what im doing believe me.. im just trying to find other ways to forget it faster. ;-) thanks for replying.
@carolscash (9500)
• United States
24 Oct 07
Depending on why the relationship didn't work,I think it is possible to still be friends. I have a guy that I am friends with that I have been friends with for a long time.We dated for a short time,but then we just went back to being friends. He is a great guy that I can share a lot of memories with and I think a great deal about him. However,I know that we are just friends and will never be more than that.
@lgwlong (199)
• China
29 Sep 07
i can undestand you ,once you care too much the person ,you will lose your sense, your ever lover is right ,just let go each other and should not meet each other