Can you ever forget your FIRST LOVE????

India
September 29, 2007 4:01am CST
I have heard people say that its herad to forget your first love,since i have no experience may be i dont really understand that feeling, so guys does it really ache when you break down with your dear ones, what is so unique in first love that lets you cherish those memories till the end???????
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@subha12 (18453)
• India
5 Oct 07
May be one can never forget the first love. But that must be the true love. But if it was just the fraud way, then it can be forgotten. But the time you feel you are in love for first time is awesome. May be there are so many thing one experiences for the first time so taht it can't be forgotten.
• Philippines
6 Oct 07
hi to all! hehehe... since you have no experience yet, i'll share some things about it to you. Well! It depends on the situation., some 1st love are fraud so it's better forgetting about it while others are real or a little puppy love that they can't fight for yet. On my situation, still, even though have move on or saying i forgot about him, there are still memories that goes within our hearts and minds that gives as reasons to smile or sob about it. First love, for me, can never be forget 'cause it was one of your favorite memories and experiences in your life... ^_^ Hope that helps...:-)
@runsgame (2033)
• India
4 Oct 07
no not at all and never. this is the biggest guilty and fault being done by many in this universe. the first love u hav , it is the first gift given by god . please do not throw or forget the same till u be in this universe
• India
4 Oct 07
hmm so thats a noble thought
@mamasan34 (6521)
• United States
30 Sep 07
I do cherish my memories with my first love. But now that I look back on it, I don't love this person as I did before. I have a great affection for him but in a friendly way. He was a good part of my life and we have many fun and good memories together, your first love is never forgotten, but with time, the feeling is different.
• India
4 Oct 07
wow it was a nice comment from your side i completely agree with you
• India
29 Sep 07
I do remember her. Even after 6 years or more of the breakup. And it does feel good to remember her. Its like i miss her everyday and hope to be with her, but i've grown used to it now. The feeling doesn't depress me or anything. just diverts my mind from whatever i'm in. How can i forget her? Or the times?? I can't forget the first crush i had, or the first time i kissed her. Or my naivety on those feelings until then. It was a first hand experience of all that and more. Doesn't really mean that i don't dig other girls, or that i wait for her. I just let nature take its course. I'm not bothered to worry about whether i forget her or not. Just confident enogh to say that i won't. Cheers !!
• India
29 Sep 07
Just to clarify, I have fell for love even after her. I don't love her, just can't seem to forget her. And the times i've fallen for love, i'm not surprised if i don't remember anyone else.
• Philippines
29 Sep 07
You can never forget your first love, you only remember the memories you have with your first love, but not the feelings I guess... Like the one song that I knew... it says like this.... .....I remember the boy but I dont remember the feelings anymore. LOlz.. aspiring singer! But seriosly speaking that true, you only remember the person and the memories...But you need to move on and forget the feelings you have for him/her...
• India
30 Sep 07
i agree with what you have said its more important to move on with life rather than stick on with any painful memories
@nyumix (1661)
• Belgium
29 Sep 07
I do not remember anymore when the first time I felt in love, so I guess I already forget my first love. For me, future is more important than the past. So I always tried to forget or try not to remember anything about my past love. Now, I'm happy with the love that I have together with my husband and my two children.
• India
30 Sep 07
hmm yours is an interesting case may be the first case i have seen reporting to have forgotten the first love ,anyway your attitude is just superb kick the past hug the present
• India
29 Sep 07
I think no one can forget the first love if it is real and true one.Some people take it as a time pass only.For them it is easy to forget it.
• India
30 Sep 07
i apprecciate your response but let me tell a time pass love can never be a first love
@andyliuzn (991)
• China
6 Oct 07
Well, I couldn't forget my 1st lover. And in fact, I won't break up with her in my lifetime, she is my 1st lover and I do hope she will be the one for me all my life. Andy
@gradyslady (4055)
• United States
29 Sep 07
It's still kind of hard getting over my first true love. He meant a lot to me, but my new boyfriend is just as great as him.