help!!!look forward your suggestion~~

Singapore
September 30, 2007 12:41am CST
There are two things I can not decide, which have made me nervous almost everyday. The first thing is that I can not decide whether continue my contract with my job. I am a chinese girl from china,but now i am working in singapore as a teacher. My boyfriend is working in Beijing China. His job is satisfying and he may be promoted in the near future. But for me, there's no doubt that working in singapore is better for me. It's very difficult to find a good job in china now. However, if i continue my contract i feel i cant endure next one year's missing my family and my boyfriend. So, how can i decide it? The other thing is that whether I will have the lasik eye surgery. Anyone have had this surgery? I have several colleagues had this surgery and their eyesight are perfect now. But i am very afraid of surgery, how can i decide it? If you were me, what you will do? Give me some suggestions. thanks.
2 responses
@laymon (7)
• China
30 Sep 07
if i were you, i will go back to Beijing since your boyfriend cant go to singapore with you.and the operation is dangerous. we can't take the risk.
• Singapore
30 Sep 07
Thank you for your response,but i can not endure glass and contact lens.
@youless (85225)
• Guangzhou, China
30 Sep 07
I think if you miss your boyfriend and your family, then perhaps it is the time to go back. Unless you want to settle down in Singapore. If one day sooner or later you have to go back to China, perhaps earlier is better. At least you are young and should be easier to find a good job. Especially the Olympic is coming, there should be more good chances. Besides, it is very hard to maintain a far away love relationship. It is sad for both of you. Sometimes money isn't the first choice. As to the eye surgery, I don't suggest you to do it. No matter what, there is still a risk. If your eyesight can be fine with glasses, why you have to take a risk to have a surgery? It is not a pleasant experience and I'm so afraid to the accident. I can't afford to any accidents because eyes are so important.
• Singapore
30 Sep 07
Thanks for your suggestion, I think i will choose beijing rather than singapore, although i dont like beijing. i can not be used to atmosphere of china now, so crowded and unclean. But it is my hometown. As for eye surgery, it's still in the air, I am so attracted by it.