I Chat with My X Girlfirend

Philippines
October 4, 2007 1:25am CST
Huh another sunny day, I got so bored last week thats why I checkd my friends on friendster. I checked the friends of my friends and suddenly I saw My EX Girlfriend on one of my friends friend's list... Its been 5 Years since we broke up I just wanna check if she was able to recover from our break up Hahahahaha... lol.... Why am I laughing... huh... Long time ago I was a player very insenstive with my girl's feelings I am the one who always do the break up, when i feel bored and I think I have to let her go to chase for another one I dont hesitate to break up.... Yeah yeah I was bad and immature before... Going back to my X I saw her in my friends friendster and tried to message her... the other day she replied back actually I was surprised coz my ex is now in canada, Take note I saw her BF also in her friendster... hehehehe and I am proud to say That I look more handsome than her BF hehehe lol.... Ok so now what happened is that we exchanged messages and decided to YM or chat.. So we chat for like an hour or two... Then My X is trying to win me back as we were trying to flurt each other but of course she already have a BF and I also have a stable relationship for almost two years... I said no we just have to be friends.. The funny thing about this is that she said that up to now she still doesnt wanna see me at all and she is wishing that I should not go to canada because she doesnt know what to do if ever we accidentally crossed our way... I am so proud of mysself because I am able to refuse temptations. Before I am really not that serious but now because of my love once I can do extra mile like doing things I havent done before. I think the issue is that we always learn from our mistakes and because of that we continuously learn and become more responsible. Love is so powerful that It is really an effective way of controlling your self.. Now I understand women who looses their weight because their husband has a mistress.... hahahaha.... lol
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9 responses
• Philippines
4 Oct 07
You know what you make me laugh. You are so confident in yourself. I think you have a handsome face and nice attitude and maybe a bit of proud that is why your ex girlfriend want you back. Or maybe she still loves you. Or we can assume that she is just doing it to test you and don't be fooled with that. But thanks that you are now a good boy. Going straight because that is the right thing to do. Good luck and please don't hurt the feelings of women who wants and loves you it might come back to you.
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4 Oct 07
really
• Philippines
17 Oct 07
yeah Im a change man now hehehehe... not so perfect but trying to be lol...!!
@cefaz_21 (2597)
• Philippines
4 Oct 07
and so you are like my ex boyfriend, a player..LOl good thing you've changed now for the better, I guess people cahnge when they mature,just like what happened to you..but hey! dont send your ex girlfriend a wrong signal..you know what I mean? maybe she expected that you still care for her because you messaged her and you enjoy chatting with her..and..does your present gf knows you are chatting with your ex? hala ka! I do sometimes chat with my ex too but of course mu husbnad knows it..and it's only for a few minutes and not an hour..*smiles* happy posting!
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• Philippines
17 Oct 07
i don't consider it cheating actually I just think of it as reminiscing the past
@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
5 Oct 07
when u chatted with ur ex, did your current gf knows about it??
• Philippines
5 Oct 07
absolutely not....
@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
7 Oct 07
haha.. like that u are not being honest with her.. u have to tell your gf in case she finds out 1 day, u will be in great trouble even though u can resist the temptation from ur ex.. But ur gf might feel insecure instead..
• Philippines
8 Oct 07
hahahaha... its complicated hehehehe... by the way I chat with her again yesterday I mentioned that I will be going out of the country. The funny thing is that she said not in canada because she is in camnada and she doesnt know what to do if in case we crossed each others way hahaha.. she said she will slap my face... huhuhu.... but honestly I think she still loves me coz Im the one who did it first.... hehehehehe.. its just that I am commited now... Telling it to my GF now isnt that neccessary coz its not a big deal to me...
@nehrlas (202)
• United States
4 Oct 07
Maybe you caught her at a weak moment?? I used to chat with my ex husband on the phone. My current husband knew I did, but we stopped when he got married. His girlfiend/wife wouldn't understand. Women are more jealous of ex's then men. At least my man.
@nehrlas (202)
• United States
6 Oct 07
I had just grown up with him, we were better friends then partners. So it was nice to talk to him. I miss that, but I want him to be happy and I dont want his wife to be jealous. did everything work out with your ex?
• Philippines
17 Oct 07
Y did you stop what wrong chatting with your ex?
@ilunice (947)
• Netherlands
6 Oct 07
You seem to be a playboy. I am sure you don't allow you current girlfriend know you chat with your ex. Women are very jealous and may not understand.
• Philippines
17 Oct 07
am not a play boy just a lover and the best pleaser lol....
@subha12 (18462)
• India
5 Oct 07
What to say.. I think most of the guys are like you. You may feel bad , But i can't help it. When you played with her, you did not consider her feelings. Now you are laughing out and checking her current status. Its Ok if you can be friend with her.
• Philippines
5 Oct 07
Before I was kinda imature and insensitive ya know when your your the view of what is right and wrong is blurred but as the day passes by and your with different relationship you became more sincere and responsible in all of your actions... Thats what i am right now more mature and more responsible . I feel so sorry for her but it doesnt mean that her life must not go on afterwards...
@wisedragon (2331)
• Philippines
4 Oct 07
Well I'm glad to know you're learning from your mistakes. Good for you. That's the way it should be. In the last several years I occasionally got a glimpse of my ex-girlfriend. I'm proud to say she looked happier and more "blooming" when she was with me than with her current bf. LOL
• Philippines
17 Oct 07
hahahaha... but by ex keep on saying that she is much prettier now than before and she rocks more hehehehe... lol
@huilee (1010)
• Singapore
14 Nov 07
Good that you are able to resist temptations... But why in the first place did u tempted her? I mean it isnt a good idea to flirt with someone you are no longer interested in... If im ur gf, yah, i should be happy u resist tempatations, but i will be so sad because you shouldnt even contact and flirt with her... But anyway, i dun understand the whole story so thats just my point of view...
• Philippines
15 Oct 07
HHMmmmmmmm why your ex would bother to win you back then? lol Well all i can say is that... Women will always be a women and its hard to deal with them sometimes but we cannot live without them indeed!