How many breakups before you find your one and only?

Pakistan
October 4, 2007 4:13pm CST
How many relationships does one have to go through before he finds the one and only for his / her life . No genius stuff please i need real life experiences
6 responses
@theprogamer (10539)
• United States
4 Oct 07
I'm around a dozen (it includes a couple of one shots that completely sucked too). A few close friends were at a few breakups Other friends and family are where I'm at near a dozen or so And then there are a few that have broke up with scores of women But also know that some people don't find their one and only and get tired of the garbage in relationships.
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• United States
4 Oct 07
I think that it really depends on the person. Some people might honestly find the love of their life in their first relationship, while others may take much longer to do so. In my case, I've been in almost too many relationships to count, but I am only the third woman my fiance ever dated. In both of our cases, though, regardless of the hard numbers, it was probably an even split on how many times we broke up with someone compared to how many times we were broken up with.
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@noriko (1254)
4 Oct 07
since high school well i ahve 8 break ups before i found what i was looking for. well not exactly was looking when i f ound him. i gave up and got tired of relationships for i always end up with the wrong guy. so when the time came were i was concentrating myself on work yes i found him. i guy that is just right for me.
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@diillu (5128)
4 Oct 07
Ohm, I think after 2 or 3 break ups people can learn to deal with other people as well as will probably know what kind of person they need. So, in my point of view after 2 or 3 break ups a person can find the right one. As for me I found my Mr. Right after two breakups. It was pretty tough to take care of myself after two breaks up. But lucky me, I found him.
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@lucky_witch (2711)
• Philippines
18 Oct 07
I dont know. I believe that you cant tell it by the number of times you say goodbye to someone. Some finds their first love their true love... Some never finds it. You cant really tell... It would depend on how soon the right one who was meant for you would come along. You must learn to wait for the right one for you.
@innechen (1321)
• Indonesia
5 Oct 07
relationship - between relationship
This is a real life experience, but mostly people quite suprise hearing this,because its only happens to me once.i only experience 1 time relationship befor i finally met my husband.all my friends believe since they know how i am hard to fall in love and hard to break up.but all my relationship are always needs deep struggle.thats why i appreciate my present relationship.