why boys and girls wants to be like that?
5 Oct 07
Hello there. I understand what you mean. I guess this has to do with the character difference between the 2 genders. Girls want their guys to be faithful and that is why they would want to be the last girl in a guy's life. They want the guy to love no other except them. As for guys, I think it's because they want their girlfriends or wives to be virgins. That's why they want to be the first in the girls' life. So what does this show? I think it shows girls think with their heart and guys think with the lower half their body. This is my humble opinion. No offense to guys out there. =D
6 Oct 07
Because boys want girls to be virgins and girls want boys to be husbands. Why because many men think with their lower half and girls think with their heart. LOL Honestly it shouldn't make any difference, as long as someone makes you happy right now enjoy it no matter what the past was or the future will be.
7 Oct 07
Hi Mahesh! I guess that a boy wants to be the first boy in the girls life because it is a boost to his ego. Moreover, first love is not easily forgotton. On the other hand it is a typical girl mentality to want her guy to accept her as the last girl in his life and be faithful and loyal to her.For me I do not mind what sort of a past my guy had i only look into what his present is. I would hate if he is cheating me behind my back.
5 Oct 07
it is very simple to understand if you understand that boys and girls think differently.. its not that they do it intentionally, but its something God has done while making them.. in simple words you can say they are wired that way.. a guy would always want to be the first man in a girls life even though he has had 10 girls in his life till then... his ego will not spare him if he knows that he is using secondhand girlfriend or wife..this is what men generally think and this in my opinion is very wrong... he is also afraid.. afraid of the fact that he wont be able to make her as happy as the other man would have made her.. after all she has some thing to compare with.. :) while girls know the real world.. they know that humans are made to make mistakes.. and they make mistakes until they find the correct person... a girl always wants to be that right person ..:)