why boys and girls wants to be like that?

boy and girl - boy and girl for life
@CEN7777 (858)
India
October 5, 2007 9:53am CST
Hi Friends, Why a boy Wants to be First boy in a girls life, And why girl wants to be last girl in a boys life? Pls share your views.
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@jHoEn16 (2043)
• Australia
6 Oct 07
because thats the thing that boys can be proud of... being the first on thier woman... and girls wants to be the last... even me i want to be the last coz i cant stand it if theres still another after me...:)
@CEN7777 (858)
• India
6 Oct 07
thanks jHoen ,you have a valid point in your response .
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@jHoEn16 (2043)
• Australia
6 Oct 07
youre always welcome my friend! :)
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@poohgal (6848)
• Singapore
5 Oct 07
Hello there. I understand what you mean. I guess this has to do with the character difference between the 2 genders. Girls want their guys to be faithful and that is why they would want to be the last girl in a guy's life. They want the guy to love no other except them. As for guys, I think it's because they want their girlfriends or wives to be virgins. That's why they want to be the first in the girls' life. So what does this show? I think it shows girls think with their heart and guys think with the lower half their body. This is my humble opinion. No offense to guys out there. =D
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@CEN7777 (858)
• India
5 Oct 07
Thanks poohgal,Its a beautiful and very logical response. Your opinion is very good and humble one.
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@vicki2876 (5640)
• Canada
6 Oct 07
Because boys want girls to be virgins and girls want boys to be husbands. Why because many men think with their lower half and girls think with their heart. LOL Honestly it shouldn't make any difference, as long as someone makes you happy right now enjoy it no matter what the past was or the future will be.
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@CEN7777 (858)
• India
6 Oct 07
thanks vicki for your such a comparative response. I think world will be heaven if first boy and first girl are togetrher for life long as lower half and heart starts working together.
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@vicki2876 (5640)
• Canada
6 Oct 07
Sweet! ;)
@terrych (1227)
• United States
6 Oct 07
Boys wants to be first beacuse they are like kids, like to trying to try a new toy... girls wants to be last because that is love... it does not matter what is in your past... it is only about love... Does it make sense to you?
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@CEN7777 (858)
• India
6 Oct 07
thanks terrych you have explained it very nicely.
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@terrych (1227)
• United States
6 Oct 07
you are welcome! Have a great weekend!
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• India
7 Oct 07
Couple - Depending on the gender preferences and priorities change. Guys and girls wants different things in life.
Hi Mahesh! I guess that a boy wants to be the first boy in the girls life because it is a boost to his ego. Moreover, first love is not easily forgotton. On the other hand it is a typical girl mentality to want her guy to accept her as the last girl in his life and be faithful and loyal to her.For me I do not mind what sort of a past my guy had i only look into what his present is. I would hate if he is cheating me behind my back.
@CEN7777 (858)
• India
7 Oct 07
Thanks Anamika ,for this response. After a longtime i have seen your response to any disscussion. i hope every thing is fine.I did try to send a message about two days back than I change my mind to wait for some more days and at last I got your response.
@bhawnam (1436)
• India
5 Oct 07
it is very simple to understand if you understand that boys and girls think differently.. its not that they do it intentionally, but its something God has done while making them.. in simple words you can say they are wired that way.. a guy would always want to be the first man in a girls life even though he has had 10 girls in his life till then... his ego will not spare him if he knows that he is using secondhand girlfriend or wife..this is what men generally think and this in my opinion is very wrong... he is also afraid.. afraid of the fact that he wont be able to make her as happy as the other man would have made her.. after all she has some thing to compare with.. :) while girls know the real world.. they know that humans are made to make mistakes.. and they make mistakes until they find the correct person... a girl always wants to be that right person ..:)
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@CEN7777 (858)
• India
5 Oct 07
Thanks bhawanam, for such a beautiful response. Your opinion is very much correct.
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@yashsa (20)
• United States
5 Oct 07
Please clarify what you mean...
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@CEN7777 (858)
• India
5 Oct 07
what I mean is usualy a boy likes to first boy friend in a girls life, similarly a girl also like to be the last girl friend in a boys life,means she did not wants any other girl in boys life.
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