do satisfy with your appearance and weight?????

@mari123 (1862)
China
October 8, 2007 5:04am CST
do you look at you self postively or not? are you satisfied with you appearance or not? now days we live in a material world were its all about your appearnce so much that it bacame an essencial thing...as if no one would accept you if only you are good looking rather than focusing on what the inside... for me,,i was 60Kg which is very normal for my age, but my friend were lower than 60Kg...and they looked at me as a fat person which i was NOT!! but still one of my friend which is very small thin person keeps telling me that i should lose my weight and that i become fat...But i am confidence now with my weight and i always tell her to stop saying that and that my weight is perfect which iam proud of... LONG STORY Ha! just wanted to share with you my experience and hope to read some replies from every one...
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• United States
8 Oct 07
I am glad to hear you are happy with the way you look, so many people are not. My appearance? I am definately not happy with it, its like whatever I do I still feel ugly. My weight? I am actually pretty skinny, but I weigh more than it looks like. So I'm happy with my weight, until people call me anorexic (which happens often, actually). Sometimes I am happy with my appearance and sometimes not. All the best Commonsense
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@mari123 (1862)
• China
9 Oct 07
yes, appearance is most important to a man or woman,but we should keep happy all the time,someone hate to have a heavy weight but a good appearance,so they are sadness by their weight,so they want to diet to lose their weight,in fact ,diet if not,it will effect their health
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@jmathen (112)
• India
8 Oct 07
When you look at the mirror and you like what you see and you are proud of your appearance, then that is what is important. To feel confident about life, first we have to feel good about ourselves. On the same hand, you have to make sure that your weight is not causing or will not cause any other health problems... I myself was a bit overweight but now I am trying to reduce it, not because I dont like the way i look, but because it is causing some problems to my overall health...I hope you are checking up on that with a physician and making sure that things are going in the right direction..! if so, then dont bother what others say... Be yourself and enjoy life...!
@mari123 (1862)
• China
9 Oct 07
you are good,someone have a beautiful appearance,they should be happy and proud of their appearance,
@cherriemae (3375)
• Philippines
8 Oct 07
about my appearance, i'm not that satisfied because i'm not that beautiful, though i have complete parts but i wanted to have enhancement with my nose..but with my weight, it's alright with me because i'm not that too thin, i have average weight with slim body..
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@prazad (281)
• India
9 Oct 07
Even if you does not like your appearance, you have to satisfy with that. But human mentality is to become perfect of all.
@Melody1 (968)
• India
9 Oct 07
I do look at myself very positively.Though I feel I am far too overweight.:D
@djveda (9)
• India
9 Oct 07
i rarely thought of my looks seriously......but at times i become conscious about it.... since past couple of months my belly region have increased due to extended sitting hours.. but no matter how one looks or weighs, a smiling face covers it up...always keep happy and appearance definitely enhances
@gloria777 (1678)
• India
9 Oct 07
I am really satisfied with my appearance. I usually look into the mirrow and say "I am very smart". We should be confident about our looks and appearance rather hearing others.
• Philippines
9 Oct 07
Im so happy and proud about how I look. Im kinda slim but still aspiring to be a little buff to be more atractive. Everybody said that I am a good Looking guy.... Well i think it is partly true except for one thing, my EARS yeah hahahaha.... mu ears are big and if you are to compare it with the lips its pouting... hehehehe... I mean I have a Rat like ears.... hehehehehe.... I remembered when I was with the elevetator with my office mate and got a new haircut like skinned head, that was the most controlled embarassing moment in my life hihihi.... when we got into the elevator to take a smoking break. My friend /officemate noticed my new haircut and she said " you look good with that haircut you look more of like a revelation" I said thank you but the other minute I saw his eyes kinda pointing to my ears and then coz there are so many peeps in the elevator I somewhat give her a sign to stop coz she is about to criticize my ears GHrrrrr.... I went in the right timing keeping not to mention how big my ears are in front of a closed cubicle like an elevator where everybody sees you side by side... Gosh when we got out of the elevator we discussed it and we keep on laughing at one another coz she was able to control her mouth about my ears inside the elevator.... Hahahaha... Then I told her this " My ears are big because God gave me that, He gave me that to control how GOOD LOOKING I AM" hahahahaha.... she laughed loudly and said.... CONCEITED.... End of the story hope you like it....
@kiobug (2250)
• United States
8 Oct 07
I am satisfied with my appearance and weight but I wish my clothes would fit better. I have a long torso and I just feel like jeans and shirts look funny. Oh well. : )
@Amberina (1541)
• United States
8 Oct 07
Sometimes I see myself as great and I can deal with the fact that I am a little overwieght and other times I feel like a whale lol. I think we should just accept ourselves for what we are and if we lose weight we lose wieght if not life will go on there are alot of things out there more important than worrying about artificial things. Unless your so overweight it is threatening your health than yes you should lose but if your just a few lbs overweight no big deal. We are all built differently thats what makes us unique.
• United States
8 Oct 07
Happy to know your not letting your friend try and tell you how you SHOULD look. I dont think I could keep her as a friend, they are supposed to support you not put you down! Ok so on to me, Im fairly satisfied with my appearance, my over all look. Im clean along with my hair and clothes and I smell nice! I may not have the expensive clothes, but they arent cheap ones either. I like my style and all. My weight? Well I could stand to lose about 50 pounds, but no more than that. Im a rather tall woman and I hold my weight well, Im not flabby or anything like that, Im just solid. Its not a priority in my life, I feel alright health wise and my hubby doesnt think Im fat, guess thats all that really matters! Bay xx