What is the feeling being alone?

@b4u400 (152)
India
October 10, 2007 2:48am CST
Helloe every body, how do u feel if u r alone, i feel very bad my feelings are 1)terrible 2)thinking about lonelyness 3)feel bore etc.....
14 responses
• Philippines
10 Oct 07
Hi, I am pretty sure I will be bored and get lonely. I cannot endure of being alone. I want to talk to other people especially to my family, friends, and colleagues. I will get depressed for sure if I am alone for longer periods of time. Have a nice day and God speed!
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@jHoEn16 (2043)
• Australia
10 Oct 07
being alone was scary, boring, lonely. make you feel crazy,
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@sugarbabe (114)
• Fiji
10 Oct 07
Obviously it feels terrible to be alone all the time. Not only does it bore a person but it actually leads to depression. I've come across many individuals who are going through this. Being alone can be very dreadful. On the other hand I feel that sometimes we need to bealone all by ourselves so that we get a chance to sit back and just relax.
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@hanreq (1444)
• Philippines
10 Oct 07
terrible because i'm alone.. thinking about loneliness,it is hard to me,i can't alone in my life,i need a partner.. yeah!i felt bored if i alone,i need to talk someone who wants to listen to me..:D i don't like to be loneliness.. ..take care always and god bless you.,:D
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@DarkCJ (26)
10 Oct 07
I enjoy being alone to a certain extent. It gives me time to sit back and think about my everyday life and everyone around me.
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28 Oct 07
At this stage in my life I value my alone time. I'm fine with being alone, as I get to listen to myself more and learn more about what things I enjoy doing, what I feel about things, to learn to be more comfortable with being me-- free from the influence of another person. It's good to be alone as we can silence ourselves and contemplate on the things we have been doing with our life. Alone time can be a good thing, we get to be in tune with our center, and as it gives us an opportunity to reflect, thus, we may find some peace and serenity when we are alone.
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
10 Oct 07
When travelling long distance, when I had out of station, when my wife and children have gone to native place, I feel lonely, but to ger rid of this lonliness, I always have access to books and keep reading it with a lot of interest and that helps me forget that I am lonely. Some times it is better to be lonely so that one can think better, act better and recharges our batteries.
@silveysim (337)
• United States
11 Oct 07
First breathe, then think about what do you dream about or what makes you happy. Also, call a friend and talk. Get on the web-such as this site, and right about a topic. You'll find you'll feel less lonely cuz people feel the way you do, and plus you can find people of your interest to talk too. You can start discussions and get replies. So don't feel lonely. Focus on living more, and getting more social...and before you'll know it when your alone, you'll feel happy to have some peace and that feeling will go away. Take care myloter-Silveysim
• Malaysia
10 Oct 07
being alone sucks! if i feel lonely i certainly wish that someone was with me so that i won't feel so alone and bored! i personally think that loneliness is something that people should not experience, it's a terrible feeling :P
• India
14 Oct 07
it might sound kinda wierd when i say i feel great to be alone...simply because i dont get much time when i'm alone so when ever i get a chance to be alone i really enjoy it. But i know its tough to be alone most of the time and its terrible to be in that situation.
@Philxav (733)
• Malaysia
10 Oct 07
Surely i will feel bored.. and makes me to think more.. and i will make me to think some unwanted things.. sometime will make me sad too. Oh that is really terrible..
@MarieJ23 (1040)
• United States
14 Oct 07
For me, being alone doesn't really matter as long as I have something to get busy with. For 6 months now, I am just staying at home, a fullt-time housewife, I don't have any companion if my husband is at work. So, I just keep myself busy with cleaning the house, rearranging things and being online looking for some sites that I can earn something. Do I feel bored? YES, of course but time just move so fast when I am busy....
@wseayuan (372)
• China
11 Oct 07
hi ,friend . i have to say sometimes i feel lonely.the feeling being alone is that you can't get help from other .i also remember the thing .that is when i went to home by train from my college.that is my first time to go home , i don't know how to go home ,and the train that i shoule take. i spend the whole day in the trainstation .i feel lonely,i have no friend.i feel there is only myself inthe world .but when i get help from others ,i feel better.
@cywong (143)
• Malaysia
11 Oct 07
When you are very lonely, you find find yourself more thing to do instead of sitting there for nothing. This is the best way to let yourself to take your time to do more time in that time. You should appreciate you can be lonely. If you are living in an crowd, messy place. No way you can concentrate to do one thing and you also lazy to do anything. If you let your brain keep thinking and do more thing while you are lonely. Then you will benefit from loneness. Thanks.