What are three things you want to see in married life?

the 3 things are as follows mutual trust mutual respect, and space for each other to grow

Well a married life is a long continuous unpredictable journey of two individuals which cant be summarized into any number of ‘things’ as such, but even then to answer your question, here goes: First and foremost I would like to see stability in a marriage. An unstable marriage not only breed hostility among the partners, the children are adversely affected too. Secondly I would like to see friendship in a marriage. Two individuals should be the best of friends, they should not hide anything from each other and should have the confidence to criticize and fight amongst themselves. Thirdly I would like to see a sense of humour in a marriage. This is very important as married life itself is very stressful and day by day, it is becoming all the more so. A lot of humour is needed to keep our head straight and understand things in the right perspective.