Do you like being a wife?

October 11, 2007 11:04pm CST
Hi, So what do you like best about being a wife? is there things that bug you about being a wife? Or things your hasband expect of you that bugs u?
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13 responses
@ayou82 (3450)
• Philippines
5 Nov 07
Yes, I love being a wife..I mean not married yet though but i love being a wife, not a submissive wife but to be loved and to know that there is someone that loves you..and serves you and respect you and give all the things that you need in this life. Being a wife have so many responsibilities there goes the children after school, you have to cook meal you have to keep the house clean and in order and thats just part of being a wife specially if your not the money maker at home ..I think thats the best thing you can do for your partner. To serve and to protect your family members ...
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5 Nov 07
Hi, thanks. Yes that sounds good. You do need to take care of you family. I hope you find the right person sometime soon.
8 Nov 07
Thanks, That is good. I am you both are happy.!
@ayou82 (3450)
• Philippines
6 Nov 07
I already found the right person already and im here with him and im over the moon happy. thanks!
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@dc3886 (10)
• United States
30 Oct 07
I love being a wife. My husband and I met in high school. We got married when I was 18 and everyone said not to but when your in love noone matters. We've been married for three years and we are a very determined pair. We bought our first house at 19. We support each other in everything we do. I love having someone to talk to that will listen to me about anything. I've come to the conclusion that if you love someone, really love someone you can work through anything. I have an awesome husband who is dedicated to me and I totally trust him in every way. I know a lot of young people get married and then divorced in a few months. I really think thats sad. If everytime it got hard in my marriage I said well I want a divorce, well it would have been over in the first few months. I really take my vows to heart and I really will be with my husband until the end. There's very little he could do to get rid of me ;)
4 Nov 07
That is great.I am glad it is working out for u. So you are just 21? anykids yet? I habve been married twice. But to the same guy. Lol we been togher 15 years now. even when we were divoced we were with each other expect for 6 months. We been through alot and we have gotted closer. We lost our daughter 3 years ago, that brought us closer. When u lose a chile it can bring u closer or break u. But in this case we got remarried. We werent married when she passed away. We know she was smiling down on us when we did
5 Nov 07
That is good. I had my first one just before i turned 21. I dont think people should wait to long to have them. I think you need to be younger so you can take care of them and still have time left when they are grown up. Good luck
@dc3886 (10)
• United States
4 Nov 07
Yes I'm 21 and he's 22. No children yet but I hoping to start soon :)
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@noriko (1254)
12 Oct 07
i like and love being a wife. married for 7 years already. me and my husband have an open communication so we talk about everything and anything. if my husband expect something form me then he tells it to me, i told him i am not a mind reader so he has to tell me if there is something he wants me to do. then i will try my best to do it and so is he. if i want him to do something then i tell him and he will try his best to do it for me.
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12 Oct 07
Thats great. We been married for almost 15 years. Been through alot. We are close to and we do all we can for each other
@noriko (1254)
12 Oct 07
may you and your partner be likethat forever. God bless
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13 Oct 07
Thanks. I hope you and your husband do great also.
@peanutjar (5198)
• Canada
4 Nov 07
Hi Dee,i love being a wife.I am the main care-taker/bringer-upper of our daughter.I have full control of the house and whats happening in it.My hubby never tells me what to do and how to raise our daughter,hes left this up to me as he knows she is well taken care of.I love being in control of the cleaning and daily routines that comes with a wife.There is nothing that bugs me,except having to tell him to pick up his underwear,grr! Peanutjar:)
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4 Nov 07
Hi, That is great. I stay home to. I have 3 boys at home. My daughter is in heaven. He is the main boss. Lol. Well we make decions togher but he the bill payer and stuff like that.
18 Oct 07
I love it. We are recently married couple...just 5months old...early days of our realtion was mostly occupied with anormous discussions about somany minor issues abt food habits....work sharing....like that.... I am so rigid and closed mind person....My husband is opend mind person he discusses and tries to eplain every minor to major issues or things to me....As days are going we are becoming more and more close and understanding....
30 Oct 07
that is cool. Yes it takes time to get used to being with someone all the time. I hope it keeps going well.!! Good luck
31 Oct 07
Hi.. Thanks....Yeah its going fine.....but every day with some sort of silly discussions....and even with funny fights too....but we are getting to close and becoming to open with discussions....
@nanclie (73)
• China
1 Nov 07
i love my husband and my daughter.being married 1 year,i love the feeling of being loved and cared by my husband.being a wife is a holy thing and being a mother is also holy,too.my husband often takes good care of me and my kid.i feel very happy now being a wife.nothing can bother me except my work and the housework.my husband can provide a blue sky for me and kids.so being his wife is the most beautiful thing in the world.thanks!...
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4 Nov 07
Hi, Thanks for your responce. I am glad you are happy and he is a good father. Love is wonderfull it is great t h ave someone by your side always.
@limcyjain (3516)
• India
17 Oct 07
I do like being a wife but there are surely some negatives to it and these facts cannot be denied that there are two faces of the coin. It does give you a partner to share your whole life with but it also adds some problems in life. Firstly, one is leaving ones own house for a new one and has to adjust according to the new enviornment which is not easy. You dont know what kind of parents in law are waiting for you. I mean their attitute towards you. Then one is suddenly trying to respect the needs and wishes of a partner. Its not that easy especially if their is interference in ones life by inlaws.
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18 Oct 07
thanks. Yes dealing with in laws and other family members can be hard. What i say is you are married to his husband not his family so i try not to worry bout his family. JUst him and our family. If you understand what i trying to say
@gapeach65 (805)
• United States
18 Oct 07
My husband relaxing in our yard. - My husband relaxing in our yard.
I love being a wife (now, I didn't in my first marriage...he was a selfish man). Now I have a great husband, he does so much to try to make me happy and he doesn't expect anything from me, except that I'm faithful and stay with him forever. We will be celebrating our 10th anniversary in November and we expect so many more. I can't say that there's anything that really bugs me about being a wife. My husband and I are very open and honest with each other, we talk about everything and we try to tell each other everything, we try not to keep any secrets from each other, it just keeps us honest with each other. It puts a stain on people when they are trying to hide things, we even have a hard time at keeping gifts secret too (which is one of the down side to staying honest-lol). My husband also makes me feel so secure with myself, whether it's the way I look or trying to follow driving direction. He is so confident in me that I can't help but feel that way too.
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4 Nov 07
Hi, sorry took me so long to get back to u. I thought i answered back already. Lol I know i read it. I am glad you have a good hubby now. Yes honsety is the best. That is how my hubby an di do it. Thanks again.
@aaidjs (1149)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
13 Oct 07
Hi There!!YES!!I like it!!!I like to thing that a being a wife is my the Best role in whole life!!I am married for 32 years and I fill a nice ,warm, full when i am at home with my hubby and children!!Thanks God for this wonderful life and thanks to my hubby ,too. He is the best!!Regards Silvana/proud to be a WIFE!/
@aaidjs (1149)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
13 Oct 07
thanks,Silvana
13 Oct 07
Thanks, that is cool. congrats on your long marriege. It is nice to have a husband and kids to be home with.Thanks again!!
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13 Oct 07
Hi Again. You are very Welcome!! DEE
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@MarieJ23 (1040)
• United States
17 Oct 07
I love my new role and responsibility now as a wife. I love the feeling of security that I'll not journey in this life alone. I know no one can tell what tomorrow brings but we (hubby& I) are positive to make things work out. I love the feeling of being taken cared of and pampered and I also love to make my husband loved, needed and wanted. I really can't explain it in detail but there's only one thing I can say, marriage brought a wonderful feeling of happiness in me.
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18 Oct 07
Yes that is good. Yes you have to keep positive and work togher. Yes it is nice to have someone to help take care of u
@moira725 (49)
• Philippines
16 Oct 07
hi! i've been married for 21 years now. it hasn't always been easy but no matter how hard things were before, my husband and i were able to overcome them. i love that there's another human being who loves me and cares for me as much as i need and love him. i also love that we have 6 children together whom we've raised to be good and responsible children, and hopefully be good and responsible adults. well, at least the 5 younger ones, my firstborn is 20. in the course of our marriage, while we've matured and improved in many areas of our lives, we've also learned to accept one another's flaws. now, we still enjoy talking and laughing together.
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17 Oct 07
Hi, that is great. Yea marrige is hard work sometimes. It is great tohave someone by your side all the time. We to have been trhough so very hard times and it is very go to have him with me during those bad times.
@muskes (5)
• India
12 Oct 07
the best i like about being a wife is that i am taken care by my husband in almost all matters . he is very concerned about me and keeps on giving me advices , in short on every step of life he makes me feel secure and makes me feel i am not alone . well, one thing that bugs me is that he expects me to know everything , i mean sometimes i tend to forget then he starts lecturing , " how can you forget such an important thing " . still i like his attitude . though we are just married , this has been his approach from a long time , since we have been engaged , some 3 years back . hope he remains same all the life .
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12 Oct 07
thats good. Yes i h ope he stays like he is.
@ayou82 (3450)
• Philippines
5 Nov 07
Yes I want to be a wife, i want to get married and have more children and build a family. I want to serve my hubby and give my loyalty to him and respect in our married life..