not so nice guy became a good guy, because of love?

Philippines
October 12, 2007 9:59pm CST
do you believe that you can change somebody because he or she falls in love with you? that the bad attitude can turn to nice because of love?
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12 responses
• Philippines
13 Oct 07
I believe that everything and anything is possible when it comes to love. Although we have to remember that we should not change him or her the way we want him or her to be. We should love and accept them for what they are. I think respect is very important. If your respect each other then I think you two can learn how to become a better person for each other.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
11 Aug 10
love is more powerful than any strength!
@pearl1003 (668)
• Philippines
3 Aug 08
what i believe in is that every person can change for the better... I dont like the idea of changing someone but i would rather love someone who is true to himself. But i am not closing my thoughts. I would be glad to know if someone is willing to be a better person for me because he thinks i deserve someone real good. A guy with bad attitude and decides to change because he loves me is flattering. But i would definitely say to him, "you dont have to change anything just to please me. I like the way you are. And what i would want you to do is change for yourself, not for me."
• United States
1 Nov 07
I don't believe that we can change somebody because he or she falls in love with us. However, if that person is willing and wanting to change than yes, we can help them with that. Love is a very powerful emotion and it often can help us do things that we wouldn't normally do with. We thinks differently, so to speak. Someone with a bad attitude can change because of love, if they are willing to. Infact, I think it's a good chance that the person will change because love is a positive feeling and it could make the person want to become a better person.
• United States
6 Nov 07
Yes, I think someone can change because he or she falls in love. The whole point of the movie was that he was more or less pretending to be somebody he wasn't to be popular. When Jamie came along he realized that she made him better, and he started to have goals in life. Since she wasn't the most attractive girl in school, he fell in love with her because of who she was and what she stood for, and that's what I believe he fell in love with. Everybody has the potential to change, it is just a matter of finding somebody or something that is worth it.
• Philippines
31 Mar 08
In my opinion, when you've loved someone, you wouldn't want him/her to change. Even before you had him/her, you knew how or what kind of a person he/she is. Why would you wanna be with the person that you think won't make you happy? Everybody has flaws. Nobody's perfect. If the person I love changes, it's not because I demanded for it or I badly wanted him to change. Maybe, I have just inspired him to do the right things and be a more better person. From the very start, I have loved his totality and that includes his flaws...(sometimes, I find it weird whenever he changes (for good) but on the other hand, I'm happy that he's learning.) Bottomline, yeah... I believe one can change the other because one has become an inspiration of the other to be a better person. ;)
@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
13 Oct 07
A few times its possible but most times no its not. The bad attitude stays and its even worse if they figure out their partner is trusting and kind or easily manipulated. Make sure to watch out for people like this as they can and will become abusive and manipulating in the relationship.
• Philippines
28 Oct 07
yes. it can really happen in real life cause i myself had experienced it. =) that certain guy changed because of me but it's a long time ago. i remembered him when i read this discussion. love can really do miracles. =)
@gradyslady (4054)
• United States
13 Oct 07
I guess it could happen, I highly doubt anything like that would happen to me, but it could.
• Philippines
17 Oct 07
If you believe in miracles of love nothing is impossible, in this world that it could never change, in order to fulfill the love that he/she really feels.
• Macau
13 Oct 07
Love is the most powerful and nice thing in the world and nothing is impossible when it comes to love.
• Malaysia
13 Oct 07
Yeah, I believe that love can change everything. Bad attitude can turn to nice because of love but a nice manner can turn to bad due to love. Hence, it depends how you evaluate love.