Do you believe in love at the first sight?

@cici6880 (656)
China
October 12, 2007 11:45pm CST
Many people ask me if I believe "fall in love at the first sight".My answer is NO.All these loves are showed in movies and fictions but not in our daily life.I believe the genuine love is involve a process of growing in love.
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7 responses
• India
13 Oct 07
Well there might not be any such thing like LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT. But you atleast need a FIRST good sight to know you feeling growing up for the person. I have got a LOVE in my life. We did our studies togather for 4 yr but it was when we were about to get away I realized that I like her. So it was that sight (first of its kind) after 4 yrs that made me think of her.
@cici6880 (656)
• China
14 Oct 07
The same as you,I realise I like a boy after we have been classmates for 3 years,so does him.
• India
14 Oct 07
Hey thats so nice. Might be thats waht made you also think of love at first sight does happen.
@CEN7777 (855)
• India
14 Oct 07
hi cici6880, I donot beliieve in love at first site . Its ok, that you may have apeal to think for love in first site but Iam sure what we see at first site is just a physical attraction not love. As we did not know about nature of person, we canot see his heart just by looking from outside for an instance. How can we fall in love at the first site.If some one fall in love at first site than I think he may have to fall out from love after few nights. Genuine love needs time to understand, needs to develop feeling and commitment between two humans.
@spoiled311 (5500)
• Philippines
13 Oct 07
i don't think there is such a thing as love at first sight. love is far more complicated than a mere glimpse. but i do believe in attraction at first sight. we are attracted and then we pursue the object of our interest until we realize that they are either worth pursuing or just simply worth rejecting. :-) good day!
• China
13 Oct 07
I totally agree with you.I never believe 'fall in love at the first sight.'There is an old saying goes like that 'never judge a book by its appearance'.I thought you can never know a person well just by your instinct.These things can only exist in fairy tales.As we are growing older,we have to face and accept it no matter if we are willing to.
@terrych (1227)
• United States
13 Oct 07
Now that I think about it, I do believe in love at first sight, I feel like there are some people that you see it the first time and you feel that connection... you feel something special...
• China
13 Oct 07
i believe that is true.but it doesn't happen on me. at sometime or somewhere,when you meet a person,you maybe have a feeling that different from others. this may be the feeling "fall in love at the first sight."
• India
13 Oct 07
Like you,i also not believe in love at first sight.It is not possible to select a partner by just seeing at the first time.We have to study about the inner character of the person before making any affairs.LOve is a slow process,not a sudden one.